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ok so i like my friend named jake and like he knows it and stuff and like i went out with this guy and tried to make him jelous and yeah well like this summer he hasnt been like talking to me or anything like we just got off the phone and we were on for 45 min but he was just talking to me about his summer and stuff and making me all jelious cause he was like o chelsea(chelsea is jakes little sisters friend) asked me out and i didnt wanna be rood so i said yeah and (stuff so i started to cry but he didnt no and stuff soo the whole time he was just talking and stuff i was pissed off and hes supposed to come sleep over on friday and like yeah i dunno wut to say and o yeah hes like call me later cause im getting tired so i was like ok and hes like call me later or in like a couple of day so i just hung up on him and said wut ever in the middle of the school year he asked me out and i ddint feel it at the time so i said no and then like now he says yes to everyone cause he doesnt want to make them feel bad so yeah and i have asked him out seveal times and he said that he only thinks of me as a friend so yeah and yeah so my 4 questions are 1.like is he doing this like making me jelious and stuff maybe cuz he likes me? 2. wut do you think i should do to try and get him to like me? 3. what so i do on friday like flirt and stuff or ignore him and make him mad by flirting right him frount of him?
4. do i confrount him about the saying yes to everyone but me and stuff like wut do i do to make him not feel this way?!! HELP!!
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1. yes about making you jealous, i strongly think he likes you, still. but i also think he is a jerk, when a guy or even a girl says yes to everyone who ask them out, it is a sign of being a coward. he needs to take responsibilty for when being asked out, he needs to simply tell them he is not intrested if he is not. and by the sounds of things he is not intrested in anyone but you.
2. DON'T DO ANYTHING! be yourself, he liked you before for being yourself, and apparently he still does. so the question you should be asking is should i make moves? or what can i do to get him to notice me? and the answers to those questions are talk to him, see how he feels i am sure this friend face he has on is just a mask to hide from you because in a way you did hurt him by saying no when you did. but that does not give him the right to say yes to every girl who asks him out. he is showing you that he is hurt and he is tryen to get back at you, for saying no.
3. if you do really like this guy and when he does come over FLIRT, and have fun, BE YOURSELF. it's the best thing to do in the world. be his "friend" and then make little moves. my fav move is tell him you want to talk to him and then when you get the chance to talk to him kiss him on the lips and see what he does tell him that you really like him and that he has been showing signs of him liking you too. . if he likes you he will kiss you back if he is still trying to play hard to get he will back away, and just talk. that's the best thing you could do.
4. after you tell him that you like him and that he has been showing signs of him liking you say i am better than all the girls that you have been with, i think we should go out. and see how he reacts. you could also put this into your own words to where you are more compterbal.
OR if you are not the type of girl to do this kiss thing, skip the kiss and do everything else, say i really like you i know you like me lets go out,i am better than all those other girls.
hope this helps, good luck
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Hey there,
I'm going to be blunt. The whole world doesn't revolve around you, so for question number 1, no I don't think he's trying to make you jealous. And he said he only thought of you as a friend.
You can't make anyone like you, and you've already tried to make him jealous, and did that work? No...
Question 3, I think you should talk to him, there's more than 1 way to get a guy to like you, you should try to talk to him get to know him better, maybe he'll start to like you, flirt SOME, not alot because you don't want to freak him out
and question 4, the best way I think you should confront him, is through email or instant messanger. It's alot easier, trust me. =] Good luck!
♥Paige
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