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Yeast infection?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 7:30 pm

Okay I'm 14 years old and I have never had sex or been fingered but I have red bumps everywhere around my vagina and just everywhere down there and it itches sooooooo bad. It also burns sometimes to pee. I don't know if it's Yeast infection or what!? I don't wanna ask my mom about it, I'm to scared. Which means I can't get any type of treatment. So am I gonna die? Or have pain red itchy bumps forever and never be able to have sex?

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How to get smaller boobs?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 7:09 pm

I'm 14 and I wear 36B bra size but I'm really skinny and short so they look HUGE on me. My boobs stick out and I'm really ashamed of them. I HATE having boobs. Even though I don't dress provocatively, guys are always staring at my chest. It really grosses me out.
How can I make them smaller or bind them in some way that will make it look like I have a totally flat chest?
Please, don't tell me to learn to love who I am and be grateful for the breasts god gave me. I'm really not looking to attract boys right now so don't tell me I'll be grateful for them when I'm older and I should be thankful. I don't want to feel like an object anymore b/c my boobs are too distracting.
I wish they were completely gone!!

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How do you get a guy to not see you as a sister without acting slutty?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:49 pm


Every time I start talking to the guy I like (were the same age), and I tell him that I like him in the end, he always says that he only sees me as a "sister" type of thing... I always do everything I could do show him I care about him, I don't think Im that unattractive and he told me he thinks i'm pretty, and we have so much in common with each other... but why does he never like me back??? Im confused and hurt... he doesn't notice how much I care and always ends up going for the slutty girl... why?! He tells me he likes me as a sister but then he turn around and start flirting with me, singing and acting sexually suggestive. Why does he flirt with me if Im like a sister?
Last night i asked him what his feelings a...

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What does it mean when a guy says he wants to teach you about life?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:43 pm

We are both 16 and i'm not sure what he means. I have been friends with this guy since I was in second grade. He has always been like a brother to me, so I dont think that this has anything to do with sex. We have never dated or done anything. He helps me when I'm in trouble, but i'm not a bad peron who gets into trouble either. I've never had any desires or urges to become sexual with him and he hasnt either, sometimes he tells me I'm like one of the guys.People keep telling me its only about sex thats why I'm sying its not. He keeps our relationship non sexual, fully respects me, never says anything sexual and is always being nice to me,so what did he mean he wanted to teach me about life?


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What does it mean for a guy to say this?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:41 pm

What does it mean for a guy to say you are naive when it comes to relationships?

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Why would a guy not want to date an innocent girl?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:40 pm


Guys say that I am too innocent and wouldn't want to date me bc they could really mess up things. Why would guys not be attracted to innocent girls?

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Online Jobs


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 5:27 pm

Are there any good online jobs? If so, please post a link.

Thanks

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WORK


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 3:58 pm

How do you find a good job? Do you work anywhere? How much do you work during the school year? I can't figure it out =(

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14/F 16/M boy issues...


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 3:50 pm

Okay. See here's the thing. I used to be such a stubborn independ, strong willed girl. You couldn't tell me to do anything, I was crazy. But when I started dating this boy. I think I let him change me... And I think I know the night it happened. I was hanging out with him one night and we were kissing, normal stuff. But then it started getting kind of hot, like I started to press into him more (we were laying down on the couch, I was on top) then he pulled me down so he was on top and started to press into me even harder, it almost hurt. He stopped for a second because I was hesitating now. I apologized and reminded him this was the first time I've ever been this physical with a guy, cuz he was my first boyfriend. He said it's okay and kept...

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birth control


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 12:43 pm

My boyfriend and I just started having sex, and we always use a condom. But I really want to start on birth control, except my mother doesn't approve. She doesn't even know we're sexually active. I'm 17 years old, and I'd like to know if there is a way I can get birth control without her permission or her finding out?

Thanks!

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help


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 12:16 pm

hey how can me and my dude do doggy style without me queefing?

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Long Battle with Mental Health


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 12:13 pm

I am in my early 40's and have been diagnosed as depressed since my late teens after my first suicide attempt. I have been to dozens of doctors and therapists and have been on most brands of anti-depressants and am on one now. I am no longer suicidal but still suffer from major depression. Also I am afraid that other mental health issues are getting out of control like anger and making bad impulsive decisions. Because of these bad and impulsive decisions, my financial and health insurance situation is bad. I know I should be seeing a therapist on a regular basis and maybe should even be hospitalized. I have no urge to hurt myself or anyone else, but I am embarassed at who I have become and can't seem to stop myself from quitting jobs, ...

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disconnecting a car battery in a 2002 nissan altima


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 10:32 am

I have a 2002 Nissan Altima with two types of security systems. One is the Nissan Vehicle Immobilizer System-NVIS and the second is a Vehicle Security System. My question is regarding disconnecting the battery. If I disconnect it, will the alarms go off? When I go to reconnect the battery, will all the computer memories and alarms be the same and work properly? I also have keyless entry.

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Downloading music?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 10:05 am

Exactly what part of downloading music is illegal?

Someone told me that what people get arrested for is uploading, not downloading it. (Because when you torrent a file, you upload as you download)

Is that true? Or is actually downloading a song illegal? If so, how do they even catch you? Do you have to be caught in the act or can they look at your iPod with 50000000000 songs on it and find out somehow that you didn't pay for them?

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Flying tomorrow!


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 9:43 am

Okay, so tomorrow i'm going to mexico
i'm flying out of innercontinental (not sure if I spelt that right) I was wandering if I would be able to pack my straightener in my purse & do airports care if you take medicine with you such as ibuprophen i'm not taking the bottle I just put some in a ziploc baggy or will they think i'm smuggling drugs & make me throw it away?


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i lied about my age... and stuff to a guy i met at a club


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 9:15 am

okay so
im going to be a senior next year at highschool,
but i went to a club last night with fake ids...and some of my friends knew the bouncers and stuff so like yeah

i was only going to enjoy the night since its summer time!
so i danced with couple of guys and one of them was really cute
he asked for my number so i gave it to him altho i was a bit scared of telling a total stranger my number..

then he texted me and did not seem like a bad guy at all
it really sounded like he wanted to see me later on, eat together youknow, not like a one night stand shit or whatever

i had to lie to him that im 18 and going to college next fall, but im actually 17.
...

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Help! I think I am babysitting a future freak!!!!


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:14 am

I am 14/f. I baby sit this 7 yr old little boy, and his dad was my dad's frat buddy in college so both our families are really close. When other people are around the kid is fine...but when I am babysitting him by myself, he becomes super toilet boy. He talks to me about the toilet. He puts stickers on the toilet paper. He throws things in the toilet, nothing big that would clog it but still...he even sits down on the toilet with his pants up but with the seat so he falls in and calls me in to fish him out. It's too awkward to tell my folks or his what he's doing, but I don't know how to deal with this crazy kid...what should I do? I make really good money for this btw and definitely don't want to lose out on that.

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Worried about community bathrooms in college this fall


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:00 am

18/f
I will be heading away to college for the first time next month and I am staying in a dorm that has community bath/shower rooms. It really wigs me out not to not have a private bathroom of my own...is there anything you can tell me that will help?

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Is the "master of one's domain" also a cheater?


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 5:53 am

I'm a 21 year old guy and I live with my 19 year old girlfriend. She's furious with me right now because she caught me um, well... let's just say I would've lost the contest on a certain episode of Seinfeld. She considers that cheating, which blows my mind. I mean I love having sex with her, but that other, well, it kinda has it's own little niche in my life. How can I tell her it was nothing against her, and make it up to her?

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Guys, roofies, and rape


Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 4:04 am

18/F
I've started dating this guy I had been crushing on forever recently, and we've been on like 7 dates, he's smart, funny, kinda odd but in a good way, and a perfect gentleman. The problem is even though I really want to make love to him, but he won't. The reason he told why I am not sure if it's even possible, or if it is if I need to report it, etc. He said he hasn't been interested in sex since a girl he knew gave him roofies and then had sex with him. She told her best chick friend that she had done so because he "didn't deserve to remember having sex with her". That really upset her best chick friend, who then told him what the girl said because it upset her so much. (he had nearly died from overdosing on alcohol an...

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