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The past is the past but...?
Hello >.< This will be a long story..Please read though <3
Okay well my boyfriend had a horrible past with one of his ex's. Her names Bre..and well Bre and her family isn't a very functional family. I feel sorry for her and her sister. Well, her father has sexual relations with her..and he's more of a protective bf than an overprotective dad. Well, after my bf found out about this he told his guardian and they went to court, the father let things slip in the court and now Bre's father wants to harm my bf once he turns 18. Well Bre has told me bad things about my bf that he's a "player" that he's a liar and that he thinks he's funny. None of these things are true, what happend was my boy friend felt horrible what happend he didn't know what to do so he was home schooled until high school. Bre did the same and she is mad at him still for it. She told me many things..and says he probably trys to call you every day..and he gives you jewlery from his gma because he's to damn poor to give you anything else..she said over and over again "It's not like I'm jealous." >.> Well, she isn't mean or anything..she just truly doesn't know my bf like I do. What I'm asking is..should I be worried that he'll hurt me like he did to her? He didn't do it intentionaly..>.<
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Exes say a lot of things to get the current spouse jealous, Never forget she is an "EX". Sometimes people will say and do whatever it takes to not see their ex happy..Therefore your boyfriends ex is telling you all kinds of craziness. She may seem nice...but her actions say otherwise.
Ignore her, Ignore her family, Ignore her Dad
This is about YOU and your BOYFRIEND, This doesn't have anything to do with the family. If they harass you and your boyfriend then you get the proof and go to the police and let them handle it. Ignore them
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Im thinking that his ex is angry because 1- she is his ex and 2- he told his guardian about her father's abuse. Often times abused children get angry at the people who are trying to help them, they see it as someone trying to tear apart their family instead of what it actually is.
I think that she is just angry about everything that is happining, has happened, and she is just trying to ruin your relationship with him. Just ignore her, if you feel like you know your boyfriend better and that you both care for one another then screw what she says. Enjoy your time together, period.
Hope I Helped :)
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