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Popularity drives people to evil
OK so i am 13 and boys keep trying to feel me up i keep wondering why then my friend tells me she told a boy i would do anything cause i was desperate.Why did she do this?To be popular! Please what should i do i am dying from embarrisment :(
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Hey there,
She probably did it because she feels insecure about herself. When someone is insecure, they feel the need to bring other people down in order to make themselves seem higher. Maybe she is having problems with her home/school life. It was definately wrong to start a rumour about you. Perhaps she wasn't thinking at all..
To clear things up, tell this guy straight that you aren't that kind of person, that you would appreciate it if he stopped this kind of behaviour to you, and that if he tries anything again you are going to report it. It takes courage, but sometimes if a guy keeps bugging you inappropriately, then the only way to get out of the situation is to tell someone you trust.
Try to hold your head up high; you can be stronger than these people. Explain that you are nothing like your friend said, continue stating who you really are, and in time people will start believing your inner self. Not hanging out with this guy will also make people see you in a new light. Obviously this girl is not really a good friend for you if she did this to you. Let her know it was wrong of her and she should have more respect for people. Be yourself, hang out with the people you trust, and don't let this incident bring down the true you. If you let the real you shine, no one will even stop to think about what happened that day <3
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