What does it mean when a guy says he wants to teach you about life?
Question Posted Sunday July 11 2010, 6:43 pm
We are both 16 and i'm not sure what he means. I have been friends with this guy since I was in second grade. He has always been like a brother to me, so I dont think that this has anything to do with sex. We have never dated or done anything. He helps me when I'm in trouble, but i'm not a bad peron who gets into trouble either. I've never had any desires or urges to become sexual with him and he hasnt either, sometimes he tells me I'm like one of the guys.People keep telling me its only about sex thats why I'm sying its not. He keeps our relationship non sexual, fully respects me, never says anything sexual and is always being nice to me,so what did he mean he wanted to teach me about life?
gr8fruit answered Monday July 12 2010, 1:37 am: Hey,
He may of meant that he wanted to show you new things, go new places, and explore the new with you. He could also mean that he wants to be more than just friends. If he isn't a sexual person, then I rather doubt that he means he wants to have sex with you. I believe you know him better than those people that tell you he's only in it for sex. So, if you feel he has been wanting to become closer lately.. then you are probably correct. Since he respects you, do not be afraid to casually ask him "what did you mean that day when you said you wanted to teach me about life?...". He should be willing to let you know what he meant.
He sounds like a great guy, so do not let him slip between your fingers. Let him know you were questioning what he said and when he explains it to you, say "thanks for helping me understand" and smile at him. If you want to ask him out, ask him. If he says he wants to be closer, tell him it is alright with you :) When you let a guy know you inner thoughts, it brings your hearts closer together <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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