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I had an abortion and now I don't feel the same way towards this guy


Posted Thursday April 25 2013, 10:17 pm

19/f
DO NOT JUDGE ME WHILE READING THIS. Long story short my ex-boyfriend and I broke up from September to November. We had been dating for a year when we departed. We started getting back together and working on our relationship in mid-November and I got pregnant. I had my abortion in December. He wasn't there for me at all, the next three weeks I was crying about it by myself. He got drunk and didn't know how to deal with it, because it was our "school break" untill the spring semester. I feel deep down inside there's a piece of me that will never love him the way I use too. He's apologized so many times to me but I get my period every month now and I just cry because I hate what happened between us. I hate myself sometim...

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Should I end an apathetic relationship?


Posted Thursday April 25 2013, 9:38 pm

It's not that I don't like her, I do. It's just that I don't care what happens in the relationship. Is this relationship unhealthy or unfair to her? P.s. I'm a guy and 16

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How do you move on after a breakup?


Posted Thursday April 25 2013, 1:25 pm

well, my boyfriend and i of 6 months, broke up on Monday. i was sorta happy, but VERY upset at the same time. He says he's over me. But, my bestfriend who is also one of his good friends says hes been "quite, or depressed" and so on. which has me thinking because he is NEVER quite. I'm working on getting over him, but the memories however, are holding me back from moving on. We don't talk a lot anymore, and honestly...it kills me. But i NEED to move on...any ideas?

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I want her naked but how?


Posted Wednesday April 24 2013, 1:30 pm

This girl at school is fucking hot ive had dreams of both of us having sex but the prob is i dont evan know her name i dont know if shes horny or anything im 13 but i dont give a damn i need help i really want to finger here her ass is hot hot *_*

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I had an abortion :/


Posted Tuesday April 23 2013, 8:33 pm

So during my relationship with my ex I had an abortion. I feel so horrible about it and honestly it haunts me. he doesn't know that I got pregnant. He doesn't know about the procedure at all. It was such a traumatizing thing for me and then I grew into a depression and because of that me and my bf broke up. I just wasn't the same person anymore. I haven't been ever since. Me and him just recently broke up and we still talk and hang out. I really do love him and I don't know if he should know or not.

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My first time with a girl ...and I'm a girl .... Lesbehonest People!


Posted Tuesday April 23 2013, 3:09 pm

I am a female, 21 years old, and up until about a month ago I have never really viewed a woman in a sexual way. I love penis! Butttt I met a really beautiful lesbian who was also kind of masculine (long hair but dressed like a guy..jeans, tshirts, backwards hat) ..anyways, I dig it. She got me very curious. So I was like okay, maybe I am a little bicurious about certain females. I say certain females because I am not in any way attracted sexually to my girl friends or girls I associate with. Kinda just this one girl. We hung out again a couple of times a mutual friend's wedding and we kind of had to be more reserved because we were in public but we are starting to text more and more. I actually kind of think about her a lot, which is weird ...

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this love is killing me!


Posted Tuesday April 23 2013, 11:01 am

WARNING: you might get confused, and this is quite long:

PART 1:

So i like this girl(lets call her susan.)And my friends all know. We started off flirting and being friends, sometimes it would seem as she liked me other times it seemed as she really didn't like me. She admits we are friends which means she likes me as a person but not "like-like". Today susan and one of her friends came up to me and this is the conversation:
*Susan- hey,
*Friend- susan needs to ask you something.
*Me- ok?
*Susan- ummm... this is sooo akward!!! Shes going to tell you.
*Friend- Its just that susan likes you.
(susan smiles and laughs)
*Susan- its not true!(while smiling)...

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ive was seeing a guy for about a month he started giving me the cold shoulder


Posted Tuesday April 23 2013, 2:49 am

What do I do to get him to get him interested again? I don't call him.we only communicate now through Facebook.which is how we met.I really like him.I always respond to him if he pokes.should I back off .make him wonder

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Does my crush like me?


Posted Monday April 22 2013, 7:34 pm

Ok well I like this guy and i think he likes me. The best sign that he liked me was that i went to this track practice that anyone at my school could attend and he was there. He followed me everywhere and we had to race each other and we tied because were both trying so hard to beat each other. On the next exercise i switched lines because it was really uneven and he sprinted right after me. Then I said to my other friend i won't abandon her and he sprinted to get behind me before she could. Also at this bingo thing he was in line because we both won and he ran to me and said i finally won in a really silly voice. He also plays with me at recess no matter what the game is. He also jokes around with me in class and stares a lot a me. These ...

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is it bad i like someone else


Posted Monday April 22 2013, 6:31 pm

Im dating someone but i like someone else. Is that bad. Like we flirt here and there ALOT. But thats my bf bestfriend. So i dont know what to do. I try to stop taking to him but i just dont. I like him alot and he says he likes me to but im not sure if i believe him. For some reason i cant stop. So any advice here??


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my ex best friend and her boyfriendd


Posted Monday April 22 2013, 4:05 am

Ok so my ex best friends boyfriend drives meee crazzzzzy!!
I dont know what it is about him ... i just feeel so uyyyy when im with him.

So heres the story..
A couple of months ago when school started again my best friends boyfriend started hitting on me. And at first i tried telling him to stop because i dont want to hurt my friend. But theni gave in and hit on him back. So one time he and i went to sit by a tree and we were just talking.. then talking transformed into flirting then.. play fighting. And next thing i know our lips are inches away from kissing.
i realllly wanted to but then i remember my friend and at that time we were supeeerrr close..

So then i turned away and i saw my fri...

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We can still be friends


Posted Sunday April 21 2013, 11:55 pm

So I Have been talking to this guy for about 2 months, when i say talking i mean texting everyday all day. However he goes to a different school so we have only been on an actual date twice. So i think everything is going great, except when he kisses me it seems rushed, and this is annoying because i even went in for a second kiss. Well the next day i find out he just wants to be friends because he doesn't really see a spark with me. My personality is too shy for him in person. I dont know what to think is this whole personality thing an excuse to not date me or is he really telling the truth? If we were friends for a while is there a chance this could change when i get more confortable with him? I'm confused and sad. By the way I'm 17, he's 18...

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boyfriend avoids his friends when im around


Posted Sunday April 21 2013, 10:23 pm

Hey guys
So i have never really hung out with my boyfriend and his friends at the same time before.its not that i want to, but it seems kinda weird that he avoids his friends when he is with me. I know his friends they go to my school, and they know me too, and its not like my boyfriend is ashamed od me because when we first started dating he told all of his friends right away.
So for example, my boyfriend and i were in his room talking and stuff and his sister invited her friend over named jacob who is also my boyfriends friend too. (Him and his sisters mutual friend) anyway, so all of a sudden my boyfriend tells me to be really quiet and not say anything. I asked him why and he wouldnt say. He just quick opened the door ro ...

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is he interested?


Posted Sunday April 21 2013, 8:19 pm

I have a guy friend and I know i'm interested in him. He is a really big flirt, so he gets really confusing and its impossible that i'm the only girl to like him... We dont talk a ton, but he's not one to talk everyday. He invited me over to his house to watch a movie and cuddle a month or so ago, and we did watch the movie but just wound up sitting on the couch and later played Call of Duty; he later told a friend he thought I didnt want to be there (in which he was set straight and was told that i did..)

the other day we were messaging back and forth and having a random conversation where i told him i was tired of watching movies alone with my dog, and he said "well you don't have a boyfriend to watch movies with so ye...

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ahhhhh i really wanna know.


Posted Sunday April 21 2013, 7:18 pm

well me and my ex boyfriend still talk a lot like here and there, we do intend to flirt and we always talk about our past i acc love it and so does he, like last night he was saying how he wanted to kiss me and stuff, i always say the same to him to.
Thing is we haven't seen each other in like nearly a year , we both haven't dated anyone , and i'm leaving to University in September its quite sad, were gonna meet each other soon and go Cinema, he said he would defo kiss me, my feelings have always been there from the start if they weren't i would of moved on by now, like ive moved on with my life but its just the feelings ...
I have a feeling he still has them too , like if you didn't like someone still you wouldn't talk to t...

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How do i start a 'dirty' conversation with my boyfriend


Posted Sunday April 21 2013, 3:24 am

How do i start a 'dirty' conversation with my boyfriend

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He never wanted me to meet his friends. .. Was he just using me?


Posted Sunday April 21 2013, 2:56 am

I broke up with someone who made me feel like he was ashamed of me.
After a year I never once met his work friends as he said they were not good enough for me to meet. He would never hold my hand or show any affection in public. And it was a struggle to get him to even go out for dinner.
Was he just using me the whole time?
How can I stop feeling the ashamed feeling?
Thanks
I'm 34 & female.

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Posted Saturday April 20 2013, 6:27 pm

Wht is the legal age for sex in england ?

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Posted Saturday April 20 2013, 6:24 pm

Is it legal 4 a 13 yr old in england 2 send a 14 yr old boy dirty pics ? jw worried for a friend

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Posted Saturday April 20 2013, 6:20 pm

Is it legal in england for a 13 year old girl to give a 14 year old boy a bj?

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