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this love is killing me!
WARNING: you might get confused, and this is quite long:
PART 1:
So i like this girl(lets call her susan.)And my friends all know. We started off flirting and being friends, sometimes it would seem as she liked me other times it seemed as she really didn't like me. She admits we are friends which means she likes me as a person but not "like-like". Today susan and one of her friends came up to me and this is the conversation:
*Susan- hey,
*Friend- susan needs to ask you something.
*Me- ok?
*Susan- ummm... this is sooo akward!!! Shes going to tell you.
*Friend- Its just that susan likes you.
(susan smiles and laughs)
*Susan- its not true!(while smiling)
(i looked at her is a weird way and my heart beat fast.)
*Susan- its because she getting revenge on me!
then i just leave not looking behind, and susan tells her friend,"we're just friends.
PART 2:
the same day i avoided her, i didn't look at her and i didn't talk to her. Then one of my friends said that another of susan friends said that she doesn't like me as a person.
What is happening? what should i do? if i need to explain something better just tell me.
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If you like her say you do and see where that takes you. Have the guts to go all out. Why are people so afraid to lay it on the line? If she doesn't like you then you'll know and move on. So many kids/people play these mind games out of fear. Take the fear out of it and see if there is something real.
Be honest.
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Wow that is really confusing. She could be playing hard to get or something and likes to keep it going but that could get annoying after awhile.
Honestly, she probably is into you at least a little bit, especially if she flirts with you.
So I'd say just flirt back and hopefully she'll stop doing this with her friends because it can be really confusing and really annoying.
Some people can straight up admit they like someone while others like to hint around or are too shy.
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Okay, I might be TOTALLY WRONG, but I think this COULD be very exaggerated game of playing hard to get.
If there are hints that she likes you, she probably does. The bits where she is ignoring you and saying she doesnt like you is, for the sole purpose of confusing you. I think it works because if you came here for advice, it means youre thinking about it right? She's keeping you intrested or curious, right?
Perhaps she knows you like her and she's messing with you.
... The werid part is, she didnt really deny she doesnt like you, but she DID make the revenge exucese. Its all so confusing, because some people will openly admit it when they like others, and some people wil deny it. Try and figure out which one she is...
Basically what you should do, is; If decide you definetly like her back, play along and continue flirting ect, and she might one day turn around and admit she likes you.
If you decide you acctually dont want anything but to be friends, forget everything you wrote and what I wrote, and ignore it all. Just be her friend.
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