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ive was seeing a guy for about a month he started giving me the cold shoulder
What do I do to get him to get him interested again? I don't call him.we only communicate now through Facebook.which is how we met.I really like him.I always respond to him if he pokes.should I back off .make him wonder
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I don't know your age but I am sure that if hormones are flowing, then what applies for adults of any age will also apply to teens and preteens. The only thing lacking is a maturity gained through life expoerience, and thats why you have posted here.
Here's how a possible "relationship" progress's especially from online. I met my current husband online and dated others before him. First there will be things you share on line that you have in common to spark an interest. Next after chatting lots on line, is trading phone numbers and chatting that way. If both are still interested, the next step is what makes it a go or a no. You meet in person. There is something called "chemistry". Either two people have that in person or they don't. Yes, you can have lots in common and have done well as FB or phone friends but it will not progress from friends to romance if there isn't chemistry for both of you. Perhaps you felt chemistry but he did not and he gave it a fair try for a month of seeing you. Most adults have it figured out in the first couple dates. So this is one of the "Ouches" in life that can't be avoided. There isn't anything you can do to create a chemistry between you. So do not pressure him to date you, back off. Enjoy his FB friendship only.
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Do you see him at all in person? If not, then it's really hard to keep a guy interested when it's only messaging. They don't get to see you and see how you act with people, how you look or dress, ect.
But I really don't know what could work to keep him interested through the internet. I guess the best advice is to be yourself, you don't want to act fake because it's not you.
If you decide to try to back off and see if he comes around, it might take awhile and it might not even work.
Maybe just talk to him every once in awhile. Maybe once a week or every other day and see if he starts talking to you more again. It can get boring if you're just messaging every day, the person becomes less interesting.
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really intresting,i will suggest you some day watch his communication and analyz that he is intrested in you or not if yes than say him simply
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