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my ex best friend and her boyfriendd
Ok so my ex best friends boyfriend drives meee crazzzzzy!!
I dont know what it is about him ... i just feeel so uyyyy when im with him.
So heres the story..
A couple of months ago when school started again my best friends boyfriend started hitting on me. And at first i tried telling him to stop because i dont want to hurt my friend. But theni gave in and hit on him back. So one time he and i went to sit by a tree and we were just talking.. then talking transformed into flirting then.. play fighting. And next thing i know our lips are inches away from kissing.
i realllly wanted to but then i remember my friend and at that time we were supeeerrr close..
So then i turned away and i saw my friend staring at us with tears rolling down her face.
I felt horrible. And her boyfriend ran to her.
Then that same day in 6th period my friends bf used to sit next to me and start flirting. And then when i would get home and check my facebook he would msg me.. "your tits looked nice today(;"
"I want to fuck you"
But the thing was he ALWAYS msged me first
then we sexted and my friend had her boyfriends facebook password and she read out messages. And she blocked me from his account.
I tried to apologize but she just started crying.
She didnt say anything when i called her. She was just crying. I felt so guitly.
But then i transfered schools and when i left my ex best friend forgave me but things just arent the same
and now my friend who hated my ex best friend is throwing a party and she invited my ex best friend an dher boyfriend. (Shes still with him)
And i just dont know what to do..
What if he starts flirting with me?
What if i cant resist?
How do i tell him no when i reallly want him?
I dont to hurt a second possible chance with my ex bestfriend..... but i know for a FACT he doesnt love her or
want her he just feels bad for her because shes chubby and has 0 chance with any other guy..
And i have a good number of guys asking me out but i want himmmm. My ex best friends boyfriend.and he has cheated on her before. Idk what to do...
Friendship or a guy?
Over time my ex best friend has demostratex to me that shes a true friend but shes agressive and two face sometimes...
And her bf hes such a sweetheart.
In person but online hes super perverted and a dick.
He knows when i have an urge to cry an dhe was always there to listen to me.
even whenmy ex best driend had a dight he supported mee...
But i dont know what to do...
Forget him or give in...
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I'm not gonna judge,but what you did is horrible.So listen up ,I have a few things to say,1.)Did you ever asked him to break up with his girlfriend,if you have and he said no ,he's not worth it ,either you grow some balls and make the first move or you just forget him and move on.because if he liked you he would have brokin up with his girfriend awhile ago,so don't let him toy with your emotions ,and stand up for what you wanr.
Sincerecly,
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Oh my...now you see what happens when women make compromises to what they know is the right thing to do, all to have the attention of a guy.
Both he, and you are letting your hormones run the show instead of your better judgement. Neither of you are showing any self control. It might sound harsh but its seems you totally lack better judgement at all.
Scientists have proven that the part of the brain that is responsible for making good judgement's is still developing in the brains of teens. It isn't until you are well into your 20's that it is finally mature enough to make better decisions. That is a dangerous combo...fully developed sexual abilities with underdeveloped reasoning ability of the mind.
So you may see that we are right, but we are. You will just have to trust the adults for now who know better.
For one thing, the pattern he is showing right now is not one of fidelity...that means that he will stick with one girl. If you continue to go after guys like that, you will end up on the Maury show with 3 or 4 kids, all by different dead beat boyfriends, and you want to find out who the daddy of the latest one is. Girl, wait until your brain catches up with your body before having sexual relations with anyone.
If you don't believe me about the brain thing, you can find it by doing a google search
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My advice to you is to move on from this guy. Not to be offensive but you betrayed your best friend over a boy, he betrayed his girlfriend and she's still with this guy even though he's a jerk. You guys all don't know how to be good friends toward each other.
Now, you said, "What if I can't resisit him?" That means you have no self control. If they are going to be there and you don't think you can control yourself, don't go.
Honestly, this guy might be a good guy. But if he really wanted you, why would he be with a girl he feels sorry for?
And if he was with you, how could you possibly trust him? I mean he was willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you. It's not like he couldn't do that to you either. Plus guys who text and message you like that are no good for you.
If you do decide to go to the party, don't talk to him. If he starts flirting with you, don't flirt back and tell him to stop.
You don't seem to care much for her feelings, just yours in this situation. I mean you wouldn't keep talking to this guy if you really cared about your best friend.
He probably doesn't love her, he probably doesn't love you. It really seems like he loves himself.
You need to let yourself move on from this guy. It's all drama and you don't need it.
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You titled this question "ex best friend and her boyfriend." If she forgave you, why is she still your ex best friend?
I think it's because you've already made the decision that given the chance - you would hurt this girl again. You also say she's two faced...but YOU flirted with her boyfriend and are calling her chubby. It seems like you just need to make excuses for your exteremly poor behavior. You ask, what if you can't resist him? If you feel you have zero control over your actions then don't go to the party, but you have already chosen the guy over your friend. Just remember what this boy did to your friend and do not fool yourself into believing he would not do the same to you - just hope that your friends respect you more than you respect your poor "ex best friend."
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