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ahhhhh i really wanna know.
well me and my ex boyfriend still talk a lot like here and there, we do intend to flirt and we always talk about our past i acc love it and so does he, like last night he was saying how he wanted to kiss me and stuff, i always say the same to him to.
Thing is we haven't seen each other in like nearly a year , we both haven't dated anyone , and i'm leaving to University in September its quite sad, were gonna meet each other soon and go Cinema, he said he would defo kiss me, my feelings have always been there from the start if they weren't i would of moved on by now, like ive moved on with my life but its just the feelings ...
I have a feeling he still has them too , like if you didn't like someone still you wouldn't talk to them in that way right?
we've made love before, and we both want to do it again.. would that be bad?
i just can't help the way my heart feels..
thanks female 18.
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I will echo helpingout's advice. If you're 18, you're old enough to make this decision. It's not like you're too young. If you have been sexual together before, then enjoy what you have before you go to University. Make no promises to each other, be in agreement that whatever feelings you have, neither of you will expect something to come from it in the long run. We all need that sexual release valve to stay healthy sexually so if one can find a friend with benefits, or a short term boyfriend, lover...all that is good. Just be up front and honest that you are not considering anything like long term plans with a man for the future yet, not until you graduate University if that is what you wish. And enjoy whoever comes into your life. Who ever is meant to be in your life, will come into your life, or into your life again at the right time.
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OMG you're 18 and you care about each other. What's the problem? I'd kiss him and sure I'd get intimate if you wanted to. But that's just me. I don't really see a problem here. I know you're going away, but I wouldn't deny myself being with someone I care about just because it's not gonna last. Have sex safe and enjoy young love/hormones. LOL.
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