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What is love?
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 1:28 am
Ok Im 18 F and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now. The relationship is great but sometimes I feel like I love him but I also feel like I don't. I always dreamed to date a guy like him for so long. Im Hispanic and he is white which is hard for him to understand my culture and he does very well on not minding what raises we are and I don't mind either. Sometimes I have a hard time understanding this insecurity with the relationship I don't know if its something from the past that doesn't let me be that holds me back from being happy I just want to feel that magic feeling again like I first stared the relationship with my boyfriend. It's sad because I don't see myself being with him in future is that bad even though I thin...
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help! confused!
Posted Friday July 26 2013, 12:56 am
It’s a really long story so I will try to make it shorter. and sorry if you get confused. So long story short there was this guys in one of my college classes. he turned around because he heard me and my friend let’s say her name is sarah talk about a class that he was taking at the time and he overheard and let us see his catalog. which i thought was nice of him and he was very attracted too. well we would talk in class sometimes because i found out that he was taking a bio lab like me but a different bio lecture and just minor conversation starters. i wasnt really into him at that time. but then a couple days later i see him at the rec playing basketball right before my karate class which my karate class is right next to the basketbal...
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My paents say she is ugly
Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 9:52 pm
Hey , um i got into a relationship recently with this girl from Vienna , and both of us really love each other , so um my parents wanted to see her picture so i showed them one of her pictures , and they totally dislike her... Their telling me she looks ugly and they made me dislike her a bit.... and after 2 days we were talking again and she told me that she loves me and she wants to see me in Vienna , so what do i do , should i listen to what my parents say or be with her ?? ... thanks .
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missing your boyfriend
Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 9:01 pm
What can you do for days to go faster , since your missing your boyfriend ?
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Why do guys text first then stop responding?
Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 1:09 pm
Me and this guy I like were texting back and forth. He seemed interested in the conversation he was asking me questions about me complimented me and told me I was pretty and asked me if I was free to hangout. I responded back to him but all of a sudden he stop talking. Now its been days since he responded back. I sent one more message to make sure everything was ok but that was it because I dont want to be annoying. I understand he could have been busy at the time but I would think later he would respond back. Do you know y guys do this?
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i cheated on my husband and now im pregnat
Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 10:29 am
My husband lost his job five months ago and hasn't been looking for one. He stays home with our daughter while I'm at work. He dosent do anything around the house just sits on the internet. Anyways I got sick of him saying that's enough. I work full time to try and suport us. Because of this we haven't had sex in four months. Then this guy iv known for for years tells me I'm the most beautiful hard working girl he had ever seen. And I don't know what happened it just all fell apart from there, next thing I know we are at his house. I'm pregnant now i don't know what to do. Advice please
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Boyfriend sleeping in the same bed with sister? 24 and 20?
Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 7:15 am
My boyfriend is 24 years old and has three younger sisters one around his age and two younger they are a very close family and they are also Arabic so I'm not very familiar with his culture but he is a Christian . He's still living at home and seems to have a lot of pressure on him to always please his family. We've been dating for seven months and I've grown very concerned with his relationship with his middle sister, she's 20 years old and seems to depend on him for everything money, friendship and ???? they are constantly texting even when we are together winky faces and hearts included and she always seems to be the one walking into his bedroom to talk to him while we're on the phone. In the past he's made comments about her butt lookin...
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Trust Issues
Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 4:13 am
okay so i've been with my boyfriend for a year and 2 months now. Everything is great. I feel like he is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. He knows how to make me happy & he's just the sweetest thing ever. We've had our ups and downs just like any other couple. The biggest problem we have is trust. He trusts me but it's kinda hard to trust him. In the beginning of our relationship everything was amazing, just perfect I never thought things would get so badly to the point where we almost broke up. We would argue because I would find out things that he lied to me about. He's gone to parties without telling me anything and I got mad because he lied to me & told me he was going to sleep. Then later I found out he lied abo...
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Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 2:00 am
My ex-Boyfriend wants to see me. I keep on telling him excuses like-
- I cant. I have to clean my room.
-My mom said i cant...
- I already have plans.
He still just keeps on asking. I have even tried to tell him that i dont like him anymore. He just wont listen! Please help.
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Is there a problem in my relationship or are my expectations too high?
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 10:30 pm
Hi guys.
So, I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now. We've been living together for a little over a year and everything it's great. Our relationship is so easy. The problem is, my boyfriend is a genius. He has such an intense brain that it is very easy for him to get caught up in it. He gets anxious, restless, and distant very easily. It's never been threatening to our relationship, but it's the only time I ever can't see where he's coming from since I am calm and content and he is always looking for a new project to invest his time in. Anyways, lately it's been exceptionally bad. We barely talk. All he can talk about is his newest project. I'd rather he focus his time on gadgets and inventions than other females, but it...
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I like him, but I found out he has a girlfriend!
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 7:09 pm
Okay, so there's this guy. He's really nice and funny and sweet. I met him at a camp and we really connected. He made an extra effort just to say something to me everyday. He always seemed interested in what I was saying. He even decided that his nickname for me was "wifey". We have so much in common! And he even gave me hugs when we saw each other. Well, one day, I was in the bathroom when a girl came up to me. She asked me "Do you like him?" I didn't know what to say. Whether to trust her or not. So I said no. She responded "Oh, well I have this thing where I like to hook people up but this never happened okay?" That suggested to me that he liked me and wanted to ask me out but was too shy to do it himself. C...
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how do i know he likes me
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 4:01 pm
theres this boy in my grade named cameron and ive liked him for 4 years and he says he likes me but i dont actually think he does..it really sucks because he likes a girl named savanna alot more then me and shes one of my bestfriends.. but she doesnt like him back... should i just give up on him or still like him? now for some details he makes me so shy and i cant talk around him and his smile is perfection and i actually think i love him hes so nice an funny an just amazing..How do i get him to ask me out? PLEASE HELP IM SO CONFUSED.
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Boyfriends hates friends.
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 11:37 am
My boyfriend never wants to go out when I hang out with my friends. I almost feel like I'm single because everyone is with their boyfriends/girlfriends and they are always asking where mine is and I have to make up some excuse. And then he gets mad at me for going out or gets upset. I'm 21 years old and want to live life. All he does is want to lay in bed and watch TV and have sex. I love him but is this really worth it? I'm tired of acting like a 50-something year old couple. I've already talked to him about it and alls he says is "sorry I'm not good enough." He won't even make plans to go on vacation or on a hike or whatever with me by OURSELVES. Please help.
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Am I overreacting to what my boyfriend did, especially since I told him he could do it?
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 10:12 am
21/f This week I got my blood taken because I'm feeling sick and may have mono. My appointment was at 7am. My boyfriend (of one year) knows I was freaking out about it, and said he would come with me for support. I was so happy for the support, but felt bad that the appointment was so early so I told him he didn't have to to go because of the unnecessary early time. I guess I was expecting him to say time wouldn't be an issue, as I would have done for him any day; instead he took me up on my offer. I didn't express my disappointment because I offered to opt him out of it, but I still feel upset with him about it. Am I right to feel this way? Or am I over reacting? Thanks.
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I feel like a complete outsider in my own relationship.
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 9:16 am
I have been dating this lady and I love her very much. But lately, I have been feeling like an outsider in my relationship. She has this friend who she will tell our problems too, but only a half truth of it. This friend doesn't want her with me, she is single and wants my gf to be single also. My gf also talked to her therapist about me and said something that was only half true. Her therapist without ever talking to me made an unfair assessment and diagnosis about me that isn't true. I feel very hurt, I do love her but I dont know what to do. I can't talk to her, she justifies what her friend is doing. I feel like a complete outsider in my own relationship. This friend also told her that she is going to purposely cause upset to the relati...
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Very complicated marriage and infidelity problems
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 5:42 am
Hi, 3 years ago I found out my wife was having an affair , maybe I pushed her away through working day and night ,then I met my wifes colegue who is much younger was in a bad way , I decorated her flat and tried to help her as much as I could I felt so sorry for her and became a close freind .Then I fell for her we became lovers and soul mates this is it I thought shes the one know 3 years later she wants to be just freinds after letting me spend all my time , money and most of all loving her. Before anyone judges me or her she came from an abusive family and she feels so much guilt it took the fun from our relationship know I love this lady who is 24 while I am 40 more than anything but her freinds have taken against me because of my age a...
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So fed up with loneliness
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 2:23 am
I moved to a new city within the same state about a year ago and I'm finding it hard to make friends or even meet a guy. I'm a 21 year old girl, and I feel like everyone in the new city already has all of their friends and their social groups and it's more unlikely that they'll be accepting of a newcomer. I know when you're younger, it's easier to join a social group of girls but I'm 21! I don't want to be hanging around little children. I mean I don't mind talking to them but I don't want to be associating with them all the time. I want to meet people my age but it's so hard given that no one really takes the time to talk to me. Considering I'm the new girl, why do I have to be the one to go up to everyone? I'm already shy. I'm one of tho...
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crushes: she keeps asking me why I like him.
Posted Wednesday July 24 2013, 12:37 am
Hi,
I'm in intermediate and I like this boy at school and he is in the next door class. I'm taller than him. I like him so much that I think about him 24/7. I dream about him everyday and I think he's ADORABLE!! I told my best friend just recently and she keeps asking me why I like him. She thinks that he looks like a rotten tomato. What should I do??
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Am i over reacting?
Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 8:46 pm
Hi there, ive never done this before, asking for advice online but here goes.
Ive been broken up with my ex for about a year now, its taken me a long time to get back on my feet, im studying and life was going great! but in all honesty im finding it hard to let go!!! We hadn't talked for a while when all of a sudden he called me early hours of the morning but I purposely missed his calls cause I knew he would have been drunk. He also messaged saying that he misses me. I kinda knew he had been seeing a girl, so it shocked me when got in contact with me, but i was so happy to hear from him again. i asked him why he was calling me and he told me he was sorry and that he was just drunk! We texed for abit, and then the next day I seen ph...
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im losing him..
Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 7:35 pm
Hi everyone! I want to just tell you what has hapoened in the past 2 weeks but im not going to give age because i do not want to be judged. Im a teen and thats all im going to say. So im a girl and i have liked this guy named sam for the past year. We've had an on and off thing where we would talk then stop then talk again. In march we started talking again after a month of not talking. We started liking eachother alot and stuff. We would text everyday and then we would hangout all yhe time and the farthest we went was makeout. So last week was the last time we madeout and hungout. So mow this other guy named matt is talking to me and hes flirting and stuff and i flirt a little back but not much.. he makes me feel special and knows almost ...
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