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im losing him..


Question Posted Tuesday July 23 2013, 7:35 pm

Hi everyone! I want to just tell you what has hapoened in the past 2 weeks but im not going to give age because i do not want to be judged. Im a teen and thats all im going to say. So im a girl and i have liked this guy named sam for the past year. We've had an on and off thing where we would talk then stop then talk again. In march we started talking again after a month of not talking. We started liking eachother alot and stuff. We would text everyday and then we would hangout all yhe time and the farthest we went was makeout. So last week was the last time we madeout and hungout. So mow this other guy named matt is talking to me and hes flirting and stuff and i flirt a little back but not much.. he makes me feel special and knows almost everythig about me. He makes me smile alot and stuff too. He has started to like me and i think i may be developing a small crush on him. But i think i may love sam. Those are strong words i know but i mean it. Although sam hasnt been replying to mytexts lately. He hungout with one of my best friends the other day but nothing happened. He wont message me back though. I have sent him a bunch of messages but he wont reply. Should i just forget about him and go for mat? Or should i stick with him? Im so confused!:(

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trustme101 answered Wednesday July 24 2013, 4:19 am:
Hi, Forget about him.
You say you love Sam but he ignores you
And this guy Matt, talks to you and you
might develope a crush on him dont be
scared of doning it.Don't let it be too
late.Imagen you choose Sam things dont
work out because he keeps on with the same
thing but in other hand you might loose Matt
that he dose talk to you.Knows thing that
maybe the guy you belive to love dosent know
about you. I say you forget about him :)

And if neither work out then there worthless
your worth alot you'll know what to do.

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lightoftruth answered Wednesday July 24 2013, 12:16 am:
You should move on from Sam. He's not interested in you anymore. It seems like he might just be the type to hook up with girls and that's it. You expected more from him and he's just looking for fun. At least, that's what it seems like.

If this other guy is talking to you and you like him, then go for it.

Although my advice would be to wait until you are over the other guy. Don't text him, don't friend him on facebook, ect. Just move on. Then once you're over him, get with this new guy. He seems to actually like you so you might as well try.

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ASK-LACEY answered Tuesday July 23 2013, 11:29 pm:
I say give Matt a chance...If Sam is going to be confusing or making things complicated for you, then he is not the right guy for you. You're still a teenage girl, so you have all the time in the world to fall in love and if Sam is really the one....he'll come back to you in the near future. Hope I helped out a little bit.

Sincerely, ASK-LACEY

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