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I'm a 13-year-old girl, and I started cutting myself in December. My mom found out and tried to help, but she only made things worse for me.
After a few months, I managed to stop by myself, and everyone thought I would never do it again. But I started cutting again in June because I have been really sad and stressed out for several different reasons.
There is only one adult who knows that I still cut myself, and I love her more than anything in the whole world. I used to be able to see her in person and talk to her about anything, but now I only get to talk to her through letters. She told me a while ago that I need to tell my therapist I'm cutting. Honestly, I would tell my therapist, but I know he would tell my mom that I'm hurting myself. I know from experience that my mom will only make things worse for me if she finds out.
I don't know how to stop cutting. It feels like there is nothing else I can do to express myself. I can't really tell anyone else about it, because I know they would make things worse! If you have any advice, I would really appreciate it. Thank you! (link)
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Put your hand over your hart. You feel that those beats that should be your reason to live and God and you Family. Think if you where gone?
Dosent matter the problems your having, theres always a positive side to everthing.Look in the mirror smile laugh celebrate to this day your still alive and it's thank to that great awsome guy in the sky God, he planned your arrival even though nobody knew that he already had a pourpse for you in life so dont do it stop cutting find pleasur in something else like Volyball. soccer, anamating,singing dancing.You're better than all of the shit you go through not me not know one know what your going through only you and you have to get through it look up a the sky count the stars and realize your better than any thing.
You and your life is worth alot more than you think and take it from me im a girl who have had family love and denial problems and every day i wake up with a smile on my face just because i have a plane in my life and thats to be someone some day even if it envolves working at a mcdonalds but ima be the best deep frying girl in the world( wanted to make you laugh just becasue even thoough i can see you i know your a great person and your worth gold, More than gold)
stay strong soldier ;)
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Hi everyone! I want to just tell you what has hapoened in the past 2 weeks but im not going to give age because i do not want to be judged. Im a teen and thats all im going to say. So im a girl and i have liked this guy named sam for the past year. We've had an on and off thing where we would talk then stop then talk again. In march we started talking again after a month of not talking. We started liking eachother alot and stuff. We would text everyday and then we would hangout all yhe time and the farthest we went was makeout. So last week was the last time we madeout and hungout. So mow this other guy named matt is talking to me and hes flirting and stuff and i flirt a little back but not much.. he makes me feel special and knows almost everythig about me. He makes me smile alot and stuff too. He has started to like me and i think i may be developing a small crush on him. But i think i may love sam. Those are strong words i know but i mean it. Although sam hasnt been replying to mytexts lately. He hungout with one of my best friends the other day but nothing happened. He wont message me back though. I have sent him a bunch of messages but he wont reply. Should i just forget about him and go for mat? Or should i stick with him? Im so confused!:( (link)
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Hi, Forget about him.
You say you love Sam but he ignores you
And this guy Matt, talks to you and you
might develope a crush on him dont be
scared of doning it.Don't let it be too
late.Imagen you choose Sam things dont
work out because he keeps on with the same
thing but in other hand you might loose Matt
that he dose talk to you.Knows thing that
maybe the guy you belive to love dosent know
about you. I say you forget about him :)
And if neither work out then there worthless
your worth alot you'll know what to do.
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Hi there, ive never done this before, asking for advice online but here goes.
Ive been broken up with my ex for about a year now, its taken me a long time to get back on my feet, im studying and life was going great! but in all honesty im finding it hard to let go!!! We hadn't talked for a while when all of a sudden he called me early hours of the morning but I purposely missed his calls cause I knew he would have been drunk. He also messaged saying that he misses me. I kinda knew he had been seeing a girl, so it shocked me when got in contact with me, but i was so happy to hear from him again. i asked him why he was calling me and he told me he was sorry and that he was just drunk! We texed for abit, and then the next day I seen photos of him and his new girl, I texd him but no reply. Im not angry at the fact he is seeing someone now, but I felt like he used me for comfort and purposely messed with my head. Everything was good up until he got in contact with me. My reaction wasn't so good, I sent him an angry txt about how he could even mess with my feelings and why he would do such a thing. I feel bad now and think that i should apologise or should i just let it be. I haven't heard from him since. He has a new gf which i am happy for him, it just hurt me that all of a sudden hes nice to me then the next day acts as if i don't exist. Now i feel like im back at square one again! Am i over reacting? im feeling like shit! (link)
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Hello,your not but at the same time are it's ok to feel that way it may take you time to get over him,first things first dont you think you should probably erase his number ?
That's a great start and from social networks mabye people might belive its a little ignorante but what ever helps you stop thinking about him. start going out get your mind off thing go places explore,(keep studing) take dance clases go on a online dating chat
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