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Why do guys text first then stop responding?


Question Posted Thursday July 25 2013, 1:09 pm

Me and this guy I like were texting back and forth. He seemed interested in the conversation he was asking me questions about me complimented me and told me I was pretty and asked me if I was free to hangout. I responded back to him but all of a sudden he stop talking. Now its been days since he responded back. I sent one more message to make sure everything was ok but that was it because I dont want to be annoying. I understand he could have been busy at the time but I would think later he would respond back. Do you know y guys do this?

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Socialkenny answered Saturday July 27 2013, 5:30 pm:
It depends on what you replied with. When he asked if y'all can hang out, what did you say? If you turned him down, then that's the reason he didn't reply and fell off the map. Also, the average guy is generally boring and doesn't have much to say, so that's another thing.

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lightoftruth answered Saturday July 27 2013, 2:53 am:
A lot of guys I know will do that. Mostly because they're not that into texting. In the beginning they'll text a lot because they like the girl but eventually it'll become less and less. Not always because they're not interested, but just because texting isn't that fun.
So he could be busy, talking to other people, not interested, or just didn't feel like texting.

It's good that you don't want to keep texting him over and over though. I had a friend who if a guy didn't respond back, she would keep texting. It scared the guys off. So obviously, don't do that.

But he'll eventually get back to you if he really likes you. So don't worry about it too much.

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lil_t_14 answered Friday July 26 2013, 1:01 am:
guys do this for lots of reasons. They could be busy they could be talking to other people too and could of just forgot. texting isn't as crucial as people make it to be. things happen. but i'm sure he has gotten your text dont worry to much about it. dont bother too much because then your doing all the chasing where guys like to have their space and when a guy is thinking about you they most likely will text you but sometimes guys just lose interest and when they do they dont usually dont tell you why. but i'm sure he will text but back but if he doesnt send him a text like the next day and dont always be the one to text him first. and dont be too eager to text him. you can text someone and still be busy. people like to talk to people who have their own hobbies. but dont sweat it so much and relax

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