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Boyfriends hates friends.
My boyfriend never wants to go out when I hang out with my friends. I almost feel like I'm single because everyone is with their boyfriends/girlfriends and they are always asking where mine is and I have to make up some excuse. And then he gets mad at me for going out or gets upset. I'm 21 years old and want to live life. All he does is want to lay in bed and watch TV and have sex. I love him but is this really worth it? I'm tired of acting like a 50-something year old couple. I've already talked to him about it and alls he says is "sorry I'm not good enough." He won't even make plans to go on vacation or on a hike or whatever with me by OURSELVES. Please help.
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It seems like you both aren't compatible with each other. He seems to be the type who likes to stay in and you want to go out. You can't make him change, just like he can't make you want to stay in.
Since you already talked to him about it, there isn't much you can do. Try talking to him one more time. Tell him he has to meet you half way. You guys will stay in some days and go out some days. At least try to look into some things together that you both might enjoy doing.
If he won't even at least try doing that with you, then he might not be the guy for you.
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Could be his sun sign. Is he a Taurus by chance?
Some folks are just homebodys and don't like to go anywhere else. Dating is supposed to be a learning experience, not to be viewed as a failure if a relationship doesnt work. Some people aren't the best match for each other for many different reasons. Start making a list. Pros and Cons, a con would be a man who doesnt like going places with you, someone who doesnt have any active hobbies. A couch potato will soon look like a potato if he doesnt enjoy going to the gym, hiking, walking, biking,just getting out and moving about.
One thing no one is able to do is change another person. Changing of character must come from inside the individual, forciing or guilt trips only make it temporary and not geniune.
If you don't like just one thing about a man, learn from it and look for someone different the next time...thats what dating is about. Its not harsh, it's reality. Those who don't act choosy, end up married to someone they don't love, or don't have sex with and stay together for convenience sake or split up eventually or have affairs and divorce over much heartbreak and anguish.
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Basically he doesn't want a relationship, He wants a fuck buddy. He isn't putting effort into you, He doesn't care to meet you friends or even make plans to spend time together. Mhm.. He ain't worth a dime. Find someone eles sweetie, Someone who is willing to be friends with your friends and have a good time with you too.
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