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why do my ex's friends always like me??


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 6:08 pm

Whenever I break up with a guy or vice versa, they're friends always seem to hit on me a few weeks later. Why is this?

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Severe Depression


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 5:59 pm

16/F

My sister was recently diagnosed with severe depression. I mean, I knew she was a little depressed because she always came into my room to talk to me. I tried to cheer her up and it worked, but only for a little bit. We talked a lot and we're really close. I was terrified the other night because she made a suicide attempt and it scared me so badly. I didn't know what to do. At first, I just thought she did it because she was angry with my mom, who got after her for wiping a can lid on my face after I accidentally spilled some soup on her. However, the more I think about it, the more I realized that the diagnosis is right. It's making me feel so broken up and terrible. I tried to help her, really I did and now I don't rea...

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not using condoms..


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 5:11 pm

okay i am on birth control but i have been late for my shot. i was supposed to get it like two weeks ago and i didnt because i didnt have a ride. while i am on the shot my boyfriend (t) and i have alot of sex and i let him cum inside of me because it hasent got me pregnant yet and we have been together on and off for about 3 years now. we are both 18 and he has a job but i dont. i stay with my cousin because of some family problems. a few days ago my bf and i had sex and we didnt use a condom and i wasnt on my shot for my month. and he accidentally came inside me but i hurried and whiped it all out..i need to know if im going to become pregnant even though i hurried and cleaned it out? and i also need to know if i get my shot friday is i...

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I want him :( But it has been 7 months since we did anything but text!


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 4:32 pm

(I am fifteen/F my ex is sixteen/M) My ex and I had a really messy breakup. Right before summer started. Over the summer we both did our share of hurtful stuff. He was a jerk, I was a bitch... so on and so forth. I used to blame the entire relationship failure on him. But looking back on it, I see something completely different. I've realized how much I've changed since we broke up but now... I'm looking bakc and I realize that when I changed was when I was dating him. The last two months I became a different person. I was clingy and stupid and whipped and I honestly can't blame him for a lot of things I used to... When I realized this last weekend we were already on okay ish terms. Not really though. I apologized for all the stuff I jsut e...

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crush's gf cheating on him


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 3:33 pm

16/f

there is this guy that i like who i found out something today. one of his good friends told me today that his girlfriend of almost 2 months is cheating on him and claims to be a virgin and doesnt cuss when she is not a virgin and cusses when he is not around. the guy i like (lets call him t) doesnt know that i like him and neither does his really good friend (m) who told me this. I have no proof that t's crush is cheating on him but from several other friends of t's, it sounds pretty convincing. I want t to know but i dont want to be the one to tell him. I feel like if M is a good friend then she would tell him herself. What should I do? I was cheated on her several weeks and no one had the guts to tell me when three of ...

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sex while liking someone else?


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 1:19 pm

17/f

I'm just curious. I want to know why do people have sex with others if they already have someone that they like? Sometimes in a relationship, but mainly just that I have someone they like in general. Why do people have sex with others other than the person they like?

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boyfriend's friend wont leave me alone


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 10:10 am

so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about four months now and his friend seriously has a thing for me so i told my boyfriend about this and he asked his friend and his friend just made it worse for me and said that i flirt with him this is the second time this has happened with one of my boyfriends friends and the weird thing is that he always believes what they say and i look like the bad one so what do i do about my current situation this guy just won't take no for an answer and it's really causing problems for me and my boyfriend
please help

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Caring or Controlling


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 9:34 am

I am a 47 year old man that has been into and out of marriage three times. None of them lasted over a year. I am a recovering alcoholic with two years sobriety. I am dating a wonderful 44 year old woman, Diane, with nine years sobriety. She actively works the program. I do not, but would like to. She has two children.
She has not let me meet them yet (2 months into the relationship) because she wants to take it slow. Here is my problem. I have a problem with overthinking issues. If she doesn't text, I think she doesn't care. If she isn't exhausted after sex, I think I didn't satisfy her. I could go on but I think you get my meaning. I think I have a personality disorder. I am diagnosed depressed and am on medication. I have also be...

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i dont know what to do...or whether to just give up.


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 7:30 am

18/female

ok so i had a typical fan girl crush on a guy two years ago ( with the crush lasting for a year) whose in a band thats becoming huge. i had his posters on my wall etc etc. I had met him a couple of times in that year that i liked him. each of those times i got a not so expected reaction from this guy. Every other fan he came into contact with or talked to, he was smiley and bubbly. then he would get to me and just look me up and down, just staring. wouldnt say a word. then after minutes of just standing there without him even so much as smiling at me he will move onto the next girl happy as can be. Confused and annoyed i eventually gave up when every single time i met him he would do the same, even if i talked to hi...

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suicide no bs about how wrong it is just an honest answer


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 6:57 am

I have recently been diagnosed with personality disorder extreem. I have black outs. I hear voices. I see things that aren't real. I am violent in these states. I was recently arrested for trying to kill my mother because from wht I'm told. I was afraid tht she was trying to poison me and wasn't my mom. I don't respond well to the medication it makes me violently ill. I am lucid right now. Please i don't can't live like this its like the real sane me gets trapped deep inside and can't find a way out. Please I've tried all the treatments/meds. I just want out. Please no bullshit answer I need. To know

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should I go to my ex's wedding when I know his fiance doesn't want me to?


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 5:20 am

I'm 28, female

Ok, so this is a partially love/partially friendship topic so sorry for the long back-story thank you for your time!

My ex-boyfriend (my first love/sex/kiss) and I dated for 5 formative years until we finally fizzled out and decided we needed to date around since at 22 and 23 we felt like an old couple. We honestly stopped being in love but neither of us hurt the other one or cheated or anything-it just died and we're still very close.

We get along extremely well, we can tell each other anything and I often confide in him and seek out his advice-even on relationships! I've always expected that we would remain friends for our entire lives and my current boyfriend of 4 years accept...

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How do I become an fbi agent?


Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 3:10 am

i'm currently a criminal justice major in college and am looking into the FBI or GBI. i understand they do background checks for these types of jobs. i got a misdemeanor citation for underage possession of alcohol when i was 19, paid my fines, and served probation. would something like this prevent me from getting in to the FBI or GBI? other than that i have 2 speeding tickets, but have never been arrested or anything like that. any help is appreciated!

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He doesn't text much...


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 11:54 pm

So , we use to talk a lot , and now he some how got a job didn't tell me , and he doesn't text me at all anymore... I wait to talk to him all day , and he doesn't call me until I tell him too , or he says he will and never does , and he at the same time asks can I see you this week? And before he'd always be like asking more like want to hang out , why not , and now if i say no its like... its okay , like what's going on? Honestly he doesn't text me at all anymore...

please help

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just dance 2


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 11:38 pm

last night in the student union at my university, they had a video game set up on the big screen that people were playing. it was a little indian dancing to tribal music and you had to follow steps. it was soo cute and looked like so much fun! does anyone know what game that is? is it the new Just Dance 2? that's what it looked like but i thought they played real songs from the radio on that game, but this was just instrumental music. thanks for the help!

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Is this guy hurting me?


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 11:11 pm

So , we have been seeing/dating eachother for a month so far, almost I always go to him and see hima nd spend time on buses just to get to him , and the only time he wanted to meet was in public was the first time , and everytime I went over he wanted to do physical stuff and that's it and he said later he didn't want it to look that's all he wanted, so I trusted him , a bit later after a while he says hes going to work , didn't even tell me where and he said first he's training with the guys at the base and then later doing paperwork as a job for extra money after he said he wouldn't join it ,after I asked he said oh it's just a job for more money , so then I ask him want to go to the store with me? and nothing , he said he has a thumb inj...

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Where to draw the line with a new guy when I already have a Boyfriend?


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 10:28 pm

I love my boyfriend very much, we've been dating for a little over a year now. Recently, I've been going to some legal programs as punishment for a small wreck a few months ago. While there, I've met a guy that is really nice. When we first started going, he was really cool and I could tell he was flirting with me but I didn't flirt back because I have a boyfriend and I'd never dream of cheating on him. Anyways, tonight was our last court date and he lives about an hour away so there isn't really a reason for us to see each other anymore. The thing is, I like him a lot as a friend and I'd like to be better friends with him but I don't want anyone to get the wrong impression, especially my boyfriend. After we left the court house, this other...

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does he like me


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 10:16 pm

Well I'm 17 and I'm a junior in h.s. there's this guy that I like and I think he. Likes me because he is always starring at me and sometimes tryies to bump into me when he can go a diffrent way and he some times tries to play pranks on me are these signs that he likes me or is he just weird?.....thanks to all who answer

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country love songs?


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 9:31 pm

what are song good country love songs?

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Should I move in with my boyfriend?


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 9:17 pm

I'm 21 and dating a guy who 28 and is very rich. Him and I are just getting back together again. And he wants me to move in with him into his penthouse downtown. His penthouse is 12 mins. away from my parents house, and I think its way to soon to be moving in with him because we just got back in a relationship with each other in November.What should I do? Should go ahead a move in.Or should I stay at my parents for a little while longer till we develop some time under our belt. need help!!!

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I'm so sexually unsatisfied and bored, and I am curious about exploring other men


Posted Tuesday December 7 2010, 9:06 pm

Alright, I met my boyfriend when I was 15 and I'm now a Freshman in college, so we've been together for 3 years.
I love him. He's a great guy, he's been there for me. He's my first kiss, my first love.. I lost my virginity to him.
The problem is our relationship feels like it's going stale. We don't really do anything adventurous and we certainly don't have any exciting anymore. I've tried getting him to talk about his lack of sexual desire and he just brushes it off. I've tried getting him to take me to do new things but he's brushed that off as well. I've tried mentioning that perhaps we shouldn't see each other every single day so we can retain some excitement when we do get together,but that hasn't seemed to go anywhere ei...

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