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Pregnate with my best friends bf


Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 6:35 pm

Jake and I used to date. We broke up because we weren't right for each other. Soon after the breakup, I found out I was pregnate. Jake promised to help me when the baby was born. Then I met my BFF, Annie. Annie and Jake are currently dating, and they really like each other. Should I tell her? If so, how?

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solidadvice4teens answered Thursday December 9 2010, 12:12 am:
It won't be easy but she needs the truth. It may anger her but sooner or later it would come out if he does it first or she asks about the dad.

Tell her that you were dating him before they met and are pregnant from that. You did nothing wrong and nor did he as it was before her and not after. No cheating etc. Just be straight up as no matter the situation you can't control the reaction.

I'm sure she'll understand eventually it happened before the relationship she has with him but what it will do to the friendship I don't know as it's awkward and sensitive but you do owe her the truth. And you know what? He needs to be with you to do it as it should not totally be on your plate to go do.

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coconutcatastrophe answered Wednesday December 8 2010, 11:51 pm:
I think you should. She'll probably find out sooner or later. So it's best for the friendship that she hears it from you and not someone else. It shouldn't be that hard to tell her because you did used to date him and its not like you slept with him while they were dating.

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