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boyfriend's friend wont leave me alone
so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about four months now and his friend seriously has a thing for me so i told my boyfriend about this and he asked his friend and his friend just made it worse for me and said that i flirt with him this is the second time this has happened with one of my boyfriends friends and the weird thing is that he always believes what they say and i look like the bad one so what do i do about my current situation this guy just won't take no for an answer and it's really causing problems for me and my boyfriend
please help
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Hey there I'm sorry to here your in this situation.
conflicts between a guys best friend and his girlfriend are never pretty.
But the bottom line is he is your boyfriend he his supposed to trust you and support you.
To be brutally honest what good is it being in a relationship where your boyfriend is constantly suspicious of you and won't believe you when your telling the truth?
I mean you were the one that went to him and told him his friend was hasselling you would a guilty person do that?
Your boyfriend is being ridiculous as is his friend. Guys will always tend to stick by their friends though unfortunately he needs to realize what is more important to him.
You need to sit your bf down and talk to him. Try and make him see you are not the problem here but refrain from complaining too much about his friend. Tell him its really upsetting you and that if he can't trust you what is the point in being together.Hopefully he can see things from your point of view and tell his friend to back off.
Have another word with his friend ask him why he feels the need to do this why is ruining things and causing problems. Tell him how pathetic it his that he needs to grow up and stop meddling in other peoples relationships.
If your boyfriend still doesn't believe you then ask yourself is it really worth it?
You don't deserve that. Move on and find someone who will stick by you and respect you when you come to them with a problem. I know its hard but its worth it in the long run.
I hope things work out and I hope this helps.
Much <3
Jess 17/f
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You don't say how old you are, but if this is the second time you've confided in your boyfriend that one of his friends is coming on to you and he believes his friend over you I would be seriously questioning this relationship. He should be asking himself if you are the initiator then why would you be telling him about these other guys. You need to have a heart to heart with your boyfriend and let him know that it's important he trust you. No relationship is going to survive without trust. How he responds to this might just give you a better idea of where this relationship is heading. Good luck!
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