Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2010, 1:19 pm
17/f
I'm just curious. I want to know why do people have sex with others if they already have someone that they like? Sometimes in a relationship, but mainly just that I have someone they like in general. Why do people have sex with others other than the person they like?
i dont get it either. you're not the only one who thinks that.
and i really hope you aren't like that.. i'm not like super religious and i dont think you can only have sex after marriage.. but i do believe that you should have it when you're ready and when its with the right guy. i hope you aren't thinking about doing it with some random guy.
gr8fruit answered Wednesday December 8 2010, 6:20 pm: Hi,
There could be many reasons why someone would have sex with another person even if they are already in a relationship. Reasons could be: they want to have sex with someone new, they were drunk, they aren't happy with the sex they get with the person they are with (and haven't told them), they are a cheater, they want to complicate the relationship, they may have fell in love with another person when they were still in a relationship, they do it out of spite, or maybe they have done it because both partners have agreed to see other people and possibly sleep with them as well. It does happen. Whatever the reason, I believe you should be faithful to one person: the person you have devoted yourself to. If you do have sex with other people, think of how it affects you/will affect you and the person you are supposed to be with. Everyone will have their own personal reasons for doing this... whatever the reason, there probably shouldn't be one <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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