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He doesn't text much...
So , we use to talk a lot , and now he some how got a job didn't tell me , and he doesn't text me at all anymore... I wait to talk to him all day , and he doesn't call me until I tell him too , or he says he will and never does , and he at the same time asks can I see you this week? And before he'd always be like asking more like want to hang out , why not , and now if i say no its like... its okay , like what's going on? Honestly he doesn't text me at all anymore...
please help
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As stated in the previous text... You never mentioned if two are or ever were dating officially. There are differences between making maintenance/upkeep/update checks throughout relationships, but then there is "obsessiveness" that renders people beyond rehabilitation. Again as previously stated, don't cripple yourself for someone whose "literally" taking time out of your day by "NOT" being with you or investing the time to contact you about their whereabouts and withwho's? You've also never mentioned a timeframe as to how long you've been dealing with dude either? Truly, you ALREADY know where you stand and what time it is for these "simple mishaps".....
To clear your conscience and settle your sanity... attempt to gather the infomation necessary to leave a bad situation before it gets worse...
Also.. With the benefit of the doubt section included:
There are must-know questions/answers you should obtain to distinguish if you have a good, but clearly, understandably busy guy or.... the other kind. This is the difference between keeping them... and leaving them!
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he could be hiding something from you. he could be involved with another girl. he could just be avoiding you and possible future drama/issues.
or...
he could just really be busy. he could have lost interest in you. he could just be living his life..
honestly, i think you shouldn't be so obsessed. i'm assuming you 2 aren't dating. so why obssess over a guy who isnt going out with you? why go through all of this drama and trying to find out his personal life if he's just a friend? would you like it if one of your friends was prying into your life and trying to figure out everything you're doing and who you're talking to and what you're doing thats so time consuming?? i would get annoyed at whoever tried to pry into my life like that...
its his life. back off. my opinion is that you're way too clingy to this guy. i think you like him more than a friend. you have to if you are this obsessed with him.. talk to him. tell him how you feel.
now i may be wrong.. you may just think about him as a friend. but from the looks of it, you're creeping on his fb page and this random chick, checking his relationship status, stressed on how many times he texts you, and really bothered that he may be busy. it just sounds like you like him more than a friend. if so, let him know. how are you 2 ever going to be together unless you dont tell him how you feel..?
if you dont like him like that, then back off. its his life. if he needs to tell you something, he will. dont cling on to him and annoy the crap out of him. let him come to you. be patient. its just a dude. go hang out with other friends until then.
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