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HOW TO KILL YOURSELF WITHOUT INFLICTING PAIN??
Posted Wednesday September 4 2013, 11:35 am
My life is completely over. I feel I don't want to live anymore ((IN TEARS)) I'm ready to leave this world an be with my grandfather where there's no worries no pain and no problems..I always asked my mom why did she have me I should of never been born. I find myself going through deep depressions to the point I started to take all the pills I have, swallowing bleach, and eating rat poison, I don't want to live anymore my mind is set. My depressions are beginning to worsen I often cry myself to sleep and hope that I don't wake
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Wants me to lose weight
Posted Tuesday September 3 2013, 1:34 pm
21 year old female.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. Lately I have noticed that I have put on some weight. I am 5 feet tall and currently weight 136 pounds. I wouldn't say that I am exactly fat but I am not used to being this weight. Either way, I am torn about whether or not I want to lose weight. On one hand, I have preferred in the past to be fit and thin, but recently I have been questioning whether it really is that important to be skinny, and I have been trying to accept myself as I am.
My boyfriend is very sweet and supportive. I have been asking him lately if he thinks I need to lose weight and he would say "no I love you exactly as you are" but I asked him again the other da...
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I need advice
Posted Tuesday September 3 2013, 8:22 am
I wanna have sex
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i like him but will it be ok in the end? is it a bad thing?
Posted Monday September 2 2013, 10:09 pm
i have always liked to hang out with my cousin but now that he is always with his friends i dont see him with out them. i am starting to like one, is that ok?
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In need of boy advice
Posted Monday September 2 2013, 4:38 pm
So I have been talking to this guy for a year off and on. At first when we started talking all we did was make out but as the relationship went on we did more. He ended up giving me head. Recently we were at a park, but we just stayed in his car. We started making out then he started to finger me. My pants ended up off and he ended up giving me head. We hung out a few more times after that but then the last time we hung out he didn't wanna hook up because all we do is kiss. I tried to give him a hand job and all he said was don't unbutton my pants unless you're giving me head. I decided to stop talking to him after that because I realized that maybe this wasn't a real relationship and he was just using me. But we would talk on the phone all...
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how can you tell hm?
Posted Sunday September 1 2013, 7:29 pm
how can you tell or notice that your ex likes someone else? or is interested in someone.. like I have a feeling my ex likes someone or is interested in them yet they do talk to me once in a while and sometimes flirt I'm confused ?!?!
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Long Distance Relationship
Posted Sunday September 1 2013, 2:21 pm
Hello,
I'm a bisexual teenage girl, and I'm in a long distance relationship with an amazing girl. We mostly text and meet each other on Facebook, but I would like to know some other ways to enhance our relationship.
I would appreciate any suggestions on fun things we can do -- for example, things we can do together on the computer. It doesn't have to be on the computer, though -- just anything enjoyable we can do without physically being next to each other.
Thank you!
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Why do older guys do this?
Posted Sunday September 1 2013, 10:11 am
18/f/New Zeland
Ok, I have had one bf before but tbh I am inexperienced with guys.At my work there's this guy (27)who comes in to the back as he's related to the manager.
He's known for flirting with the teenagers who work there-they've since left. It's quite obvious he likes me (making jokes and things).
But my question is not related to my situation, its more general. Why do males generally find younger girls attractive/desirable? Because to me it doesn't make sense-I mean what's attractive about a girl that lives with her parents and stuff who is 10 years younger??
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Im over you songs
Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 9:03 pm
I broke up with my girlfriend and she still loves me, but I don't have any feelings for her and I met someone else who I'm very happy with. I need some good songs to tell my ex that I'm done with her, please help!
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Crush? touch barrier? Sensei? help!
Posted Saturday August 31 2013, 4:41 pm
Ok so (please awnser the question i asked. I dont care if you think my crush is innapropriate etc etc etc. dont bash it! i will ignore you.) Now,i am seriously crushing on my jitsu sensei. he's a bit older than me but he's single and simply amazing! sweet, makes me feel safe etc. the re is no "touch barrier issue while we are training and are apartners as it is the nature of the sport to be in close and lots of... body contact. i always stay later after class, because my bus doesnt come until 1030 so there is no reason to walk to the bus stop and wait alone when i can stay at thje dojo a bit long... and talk to him *blushes*. he makes me laugh about the silliest stuff and we get a long really well. i trust him so much he is one of the...
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Are we making the right move by moving in together?
Posted Friday August 30 2013, 3:01 pm
On the 1st (yes in two days) I'm moving into a place with my boyfriend. I was really excited until the past couple days. I feel like maybe this isn't the right move. My problem is he's always working and when he's not working I'm usually working. It's really starting to get to me and I'm worried about money.
He has two jobs working about 50-70 hours a week and I work one job at two places and work 36-40 hours a week but I make more than him an hour.
Together we make around $3,400 a month, 43,000 a year.
Finance wise (monthly), Rent is $758, renters insurance $20 Electric around $300, High Speed Internet will be around $70, Groceries around $200, we don't want cable TV since we have Netfl...
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should i stay with my boyfriend
Posted Friday August 30 2013, 1:10 pm
we been together for 4 years lived together for 4 months and things changed since we moved together he shows interest in me we don't make love and when we do he just lays there while i do all the work n it makes me feel like he dosent want me... he says he loves me but he dosent show it 2 me... he goes 2 work comes home takes a shower goes on the computer n forgets im in the same room, he says his tired but i feel neglected he wont give me anymore... so we fight n fight n fight... he does his own thing n i feel like his not ready 2 seatle down because its all about him, we fight over money because he spends way too much and nothing 2 show off 4 im upset because his going away for the weekend 2 a wedding n didnt even asked me 2 go with him.....
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Boyfriends Ex
Posted Friday August 30 2013, 4:05 am
I recently got into a relationship with my bestfriend. Before we dated in a week he broke up wit his girlfriend. They were initially having problems bit i cant help but feel bad and guilty because i think im part of the reason he broke up with her. Now this girl is contacting my friends and shes getting to know them because hes not with her anymore.It irritates me that shes doing that. What should i do on the whole situation?
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How can I not get so attached to guys I have a little thing with?
Posted Friday August 30 2013, 2:41 am
I met this guy over the summer. He just graduated from my school but we didn't even know each other until the summer. He's going into college so I knew I'd only know him for a few weeks, but I talked to him anyway. He seemed to really like me and I REALLY liked him. We hung out a few times and hooked up once. Now that it's over, I'm so upset! He's in college now and he doesn't hit me up anymore. I fell for him HARD and I do that a LOT when it comes to guys ! How do I not get so attached to a guy so quickly? Even if I'm just talking to a guy, I always get really attached to the guy I'm talking to and really upset when it comes to an abrupt end. Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? All of my friends get over their guys soooo easily and I alw...
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Horny but can't find love
Posted Thursday August 29 2013, 10:38 pm
What do you do in a situation where you can't find love and accept the fact that you have to "just let it happen" but CANNOT ignore your body's sexual needs any longer? I'm a virgin but do you think it's OK for me to find someone to start hooking up with? Just so I don't go insane from being horny? I literally have never done any sexual activity but CANNOT stop thinking about sex. I've only ever found one guy that I really have feelings for and he has a girlfriend. I have been pretty heartbroken from that experience. I really can't find another guy I like (college boys are immature) and don't want to force trying to find one. I am so horny it makes me moody. (Yes, I have done everything I can to please myself, but I need a man). Help?
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Driving Me Nuts!
Posted Thursday August 29 2013, 3:41 pm
I'm 17 and she's 15 we do it(have sex) every week once, I do NOT put my penis COMPLETELY inside her because it reaches like sort of a layer thing in there so I'm afraid not to break that layer maybe blood might come out! But I did ask and they said "since you can put your penis inside her then she's not a virgin" but guys! we NEVER EVER saw any blood after I put my penis inside her for FIRST time! Isn't BLOOD! supposed to come out if it's the first time anybody ever puts his finger AND penis inside her vagina!? or no,blood comes out after I completely put my penis and break that layer inside?
-ThankYou.
High Fives to all like usual xD
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Does she like me?
Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 5:56 am
So I'm a girl and Im really confused. I think im straight because I like guys but somehow, I can't really stop thinking about her.
I'm not sure if she is a lesbian though but I felt that she is one and people have said that she was one and all...
It was like all of a sudden I suddenly realized her and on that day, we did have eye contact maybe twice or so? The first time, we looked at each other and the second was when I looked at her and I saw her looking then we looked at each other before I broke off the eye contact.
However, on Monday when I went back to school, she never looked at me because whenever I look at her, she would not be looking more like staring into space. I observed and realized that she kinda keep...
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Breaking Up is Hard to do
Posted Wednesday August 28 2013, 2:40 am
I love my boyfriend dearly but after a few years of dating it's become apparent that he is not what i need in a partner. The relationship has gotten too "comfortable" and he does not make me feel special. I have cried to him about how i need him to be more outwardly loving towards me but it has not had any effect. Ive realized he's just not that kind of guy. I think i need to end it now (we will be apart for a few months), but how do i break up with someone i love? Yes, my life has revolved around him for years, but i am not happy and nothing seems to be changing. The question is not "do i end it", but how do i mourn the loss of my best friend? There are many things i will miss but i cant stay with someone who makes me unhappy. Please help me find some peace of mind
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Texting a Girl
Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 3:08 pm
Hi,
I'm a thirteen-year-old girl who is probably bisexual, and I have a crush on another girl. She's absolutely amazing. She's gorgeous, thoughtful, and funny, and we have a lot in common -- for example, we both love writing. She's bisexual too, and there's also a chance that she might like me back.
Whenever she sends me a text, I get the butterflies and want to say something back. We have been texting each other for a few days now, and I want to reveal to her that I like her without making it too direct -- like I want to flirt with her while texting.
If you have any advice on how to flirt while texting without making it too direct, I would really appreciate it. Thank you!
(P.S. I ...
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My husband has very little patience with me and blows up about small things
Posted Tuesday August 27 2013, 12:44 pm
First of all, my husband has many excellent qualities. He works very hard, is a great provider, and a loving, hands on father to our three kids. But, he was sexually abused as a preteen by a family friend. His parents were never really around, and he was supposed to be homeschooled but really only has the equivalent of an 8th grade education. He has worked hard to overcome this and owns a successful business. He had a horrible upbringing, and I know that is the reasoning for many of his actions. First of all, he drinks everyday. He doesn't drink and drive, and he doesn't go to bars, but he unwinds each night with a few vodka and cranberries. I feel like he uses this to cope with painful memories and to help deal with the stress of l...
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