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Long Distance Relationship
Hello,
I'm a bisexual teenage girl, and I'm in a long distance relationship with an amazing girl. We mostly text and meet each other on Facebook, but I would like to know some other ways to enhance our relationship.
I would appreciate any suggestions on fun things we can do -- for example, things we can do together on the computer. It doesn't have to be on the computer, though -- just anything enjoyable we can do without physically being next to each other.
Thank you!
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I love doing things with my boyfriend when we're not together. So here are some ideas..
Watches movies or shows at the same time. You can either be on the phone, on IM or webcam while doing this.
You can ask questions. Like take turns asking each other a question.
You can share a journal online or send it back and forth.
You can find games online to play together.
You can read a book together. Like maybe a chapter a night or every other night. It also brings something new to talk about.
If you guys mail each other things, maybe send her cookies or a sweet love letter.
Truth or dare is always fun.
You can play phone games or on the webcam. Like 21 questions. Where you think of an object and the other person asks up to 21 yes or no questions. Or the ABC game. We used to play this on car rides when we're bored. Like you'll say something that starts with an A, so for example, You: Apple. Her: Apple, Bear. You: Apple, bear, cactus. You pretty much have to remember the words said before.
Or name that tune. Where you hum a song and they have to guess it. Then 2 truths 1 lie. You have to tell 3 stories, 2 that are true and 1 that's a lie and they have to guess which one is the lie.
Those are good to do when you're bored.
I knew a couple who were overseas who would eat together. They'd plan a meal every once in awhile, get the ingredients and cook together and eat. They'd use webcams.
One of my favorite things to do is for both of you to write down your love story. People remember things differently so she might bring up things that you forgot. Include the details of how you met, when your feelings were changing, how you felt when you told them, or how you felt when they told you, first impressions, what initially attracted you to them, first kiss, favorite memory, first date, how you felt about being in a long distance relationship, just everything. Then exchange the stories.
Me and my boyfriend used to do this, do the how much I love you. Like using analogies. Like, "I love you more than a fat kid loves cake" "I love you more than a pigeon love statues"
You guys can take free online classes together.
You both can make a list of things you can to do together when you see each other.
You guys can make quizzes online about yourself and have her take it and you can take hers. You learn new things about each other.
On webcam, you can play charades..if your webcam isn't slow.
Then of course there are tons of sites online where you can play free games. Hope this helped!!
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If one of you is better at taking good photos and the other better at photo shopping, your might play around with photos to create some interesting works of art either for fun or to sell.
Then theres writing, whether story or poetry. People have written novels as teams before. I've written stuff done by husband-wife teams and mother-daughter teams. Why not two friends? In fact, it might be interesting to base a writing on what it is like in this day and age to be a bisexual teen. It could be very helpful information to those who would like to be better able to understand and support the bi people. Society is barely getting a grasp of what it is like for gay people and bi is not the same at all, it has its own sets of issues and things to deal with.
Other than that dear, I have no other suggestions other than sharing music back and forth, maybe your own creations if you guys like to sing or create lyrics and melodies.
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I am a crichen I belive in Jesus Crist as my lord and savrer and have to do what he tells me to do. and u do chose to like girls or boys when u believe in Jesus u like the oposet sex and the pics will only go were u send them. don't get me wrong Jesus loves u no matter what u do
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I had a long distance relationship for 4 years. We would have weekly cam chats using skype and play little games. Sometimes we would draw each other silly little pictures and show it to each other on cam and see if we could guess what it was. We played pokemon tcg by pointing the camera at our cards. We always were looking for dumb little 2 player games online so that we could compete. (We stuck to stupid flash games or facebook games because we're both very competitive at real video games and we don't play together, its better for our relationship). We took turns picking a movie and one person would stream it to the other while we both had popcorn. We would stream our desktop so that the other person could see it and play "ms paint pictionary". Sort of like tje game draw something but with ms paint and streaming instead :p you can do a whole bunch of stuff, you just have to get creative!
Best of wishes to you.
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