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Do you think 80 tylenol and say about 20 robax and some anti-deppressants will do the job for me?

Man don't do it. it is not worth it if you are still here email me I will help you.
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Hi... 14/F please don't juge me..* but a friend of me asked for naked pics. It was a depressing and awfull day and he wouldn't stop asking even if I said no* so I sended him a pic and a video. And he promised he wouldn't say* but he did and I'm afraid its going to be the whole school full!* what sould I do please help??

You can never change the past but you can always change the time ahead of you. No one has the right to juge anybody we all have made a big or a small mistake. I have and I cant take it back even.

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So I am NOT the type of person who sleeps around.
But this week I lost my V to someone at Uni. Whilst they were not a complete stranger, I had only known they existed for about a week.
So this person was all like 'I'll text you' and things, and basically I have heard nothing.

I just feel terrible. For a few days ago I felt elated that I'd finally done the deed so to speak. At the same time though, I now also feel like I was used and abit worthless.

Don't go telling me that that's what you sign up to when having a one night stand please-how can I make myself feel better.
More importantly, will I see this person around and should I add them on facebook, considering we talked at length about our lives and things first.

1) You need to forgive him it is hard but it needs to be done.
2) Forgive yourself

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This girl at school (actually has my name) is being a little jerk. There are these water fountains at school connected to eachother so if both run at a time they run low pressure... I was filling up my water bottle before PE and she kept turning on the other fountain and making mine spray low... I told her not to fuck around and let me fill my damn bottle and she says "I was here first!" and I think why doesn't she get a stupid drink and quit fucking around in the first place. She also uses phrases to me like "None of your beeswax!" (LAME!!). I'm not hurt but I just wanna know if I should do something about it or just give her a dirty look or scare her out of messing with me (Trust me, I'm A LOT bigger than her). I'm also friends with her brother.

just keep smailing at her and soon enufe she will reconnase that it is not bathering you then she will stop it mite take a long time but it works

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i am 13 and have gone on meny different bad .coms and i want to have it like them but iv lways been the good girl?

don't do it

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Hi im 14 train alot and am athletic im looking for a good first sex with any girl xxxx i will sext and show my face and give number just realy do want to have good sex xxx answer me back if u want the same thing aswell ;)

I want sex 8737 Mitchell been ct Ganbury tx if you want sex come here and I will have sex with you

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I've rephrased my previous question because that answer did not help me at all :L please can someone help me out and tell me which house hold items I can use INSTEAD OF a dildo, a real penis and any food. I live with my parents so I don't want them to find out so things I can find in my bedroom maybe???? I am a girl and thankyou in advance please helpp???

why are you asking this for?

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I wanna have sex

Go for it just use pertecion like a comdom. It is so much fun but if it is your fairst time then it will hart bad.

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I have a fisting dildo that I can get in my anus without any problem now. I've bought a little bigger one as I was bored with the other one. I cannot get this new one all the way in, no matter how much lube I use. I cannot ask for help to insert it so any suggestions on how to insert this by myself?

ok put it in as far as you can and then sit on something hard. this will hurt but should work. I don't use a dildo I use my feanse dick

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I go to a pentecostal church and one Sunday they were talking about the trinity and i am confused is God , Jesus Christ and the Holy spirit all the same people or are they different people ? I am also confused on how long it takes us to get to heaven. my mom believes in soul sleep but my pastor tells me that you go to heaven as soon as you die if you are saved which one is true ?

I don't know your beleafe but I am a full gospel And God is the father of Jesus Christ But they both are the holy spirit.When you die you got to sleep until the trumpit is blone and then you will go to Haven if you belive that Jesus Chrise is lords of lords and kings of kings

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So I have been talking to this guy for a year off and on. At first when we started talking all we did was make out but as the relationship went on we did more. He ended up giving me head. Recently we were at a park, but we just stayed in his car. We started making out then he started to finger me. My pants ended up off and he ended up giving me head. We hung out a few more times after that but then the last time we hung out he didn't wanna hook up because all we do is kiss. I tried to give him a hand job and all he said was don't unbutton my pants unless you're giving me head. I decided to stop talking to him after that because I realized that maybe this wasn't a real relationship and he was just using me. But we would talk on the phone all of the time and text. But Was he just using me? And is what I did slutty?

yes and no but you know awell as i do boys want sex i don't know if you have had sex or not but it is fun fun fun and amazing. he is not just using you it sounds like he loves you and wants to have sex to me just ask him if wants sex.

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Hello,

I'm a bisexual teenage girl, and I'm in a long distance relationship with an amazing girl. We mostly text and meet each other on Facebook, but I would like to know some other ways to enhance our relationship.

I would appreciate any suggestions on fun things we can do -- for example, things we can do together on the computer. It doesn't have to be on the computer, though -- just anything enjoyable we can do without physically being next to each other.

Thank you!

I am a crichen I belive in Jesus Crist as my lord and savrer and have to do what he tells me to do. and u do chose to like girls or boys when u believe in Jesus u like the oposet sex and the pics will only go were u send them. don't get me wrong Jesus loves u no matter what u do

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Hi, my name is jhon and im 21 years old, I live in CT and i've been planning to end my life, its a long story, i wish it didnt have to be this way. I came to the u.s in 2007 i was 16, i got in high school unfortunately i met some "friends" that used to smoke weed and skip school all day, decision i regret now, I didnt care about anything I did'nt even know how life really was. I dropped out school and started looking for jobs, then i met a girl that soon would become my girlfriend, long story short, i was irresponsible and immature and i ended up quitting or losing a few jobs that was back in 2010/2011 but ive been struggilng since i got here, now 2013 i had a really good job traveling it seemed promising i was happy because since this job seemed stable my now ex girlfriend and I planned on moving in together soon and i was giving my 100%, I used to install light pannels, led's etc. at that time my girlfriend and I was dating for almost 3 years, we broke up less than a month ago, when i lost my job.. since there wasnt high demand they could not have me in the company when there was no projects, i have debts too and no savings, anyway i told my girlfriend this and she broke up with me saying she was tired of my unstability, and that it was never going to change, ive been living with my mother and her boyfriend althought me and her boyfriend never liked each other and now it got to a point where he hates me and blames me for the problems he had with my mother, and she migh hate me too.
Now he kicked me off the house, even though i dont have a job, and i been looking for jobs but have had no luck yet, long story short everything came down hill for me all at the same time and my mother has no money to help me, i dont think my dad does either, and i dont have friends, at least here in the u.s. so basically I will end up living in the streets when this month is over, i will have no chances of finding a job then. I tried to enlist in the army too but i didnt have that much time to wait until the whole process was done, i only had a month worth of rent, right now i dont see to get out of this, i'd probably die from starvation or heavy winter who knows,but i dont wanna wait until that, ill just accelerate the process, i dont want to be a homeless either with no job living out what people decides to give you. I know all this is my fault. I just didnt want to end it like this, i wanted to do so much for my mother since i havent been a good son to her and i wanted to show my ex girlfriend hat i really wanted to succeed. My question is what should I do? I dont have any resource left and i think this is really the end for me.
Thank you all for your time and excuse the long paragraph and bad grammar.
P.S i suffer from depresion and this is not the first time ive had suicidal thoughts, ive had this more than 4 years ago. And now i might be decided, it whats is left to do anyway. I just wish i could go to the army id love to serve the country if i could.

Hi Jhon No matter what you have been throw God and Jesus loves you even when all hope fails he nevers fails.

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Hey everyone! So I'm a f/15:) I like this guy who is also 15 very very much and it has been practically "love at first sight" for us because we never had that friend zone between us; we just skipped to the flirty stage!:) we've been on a date last week to the movies and dinner after wards and all went super well!:) Im so happy when I'm with him because he makes me smile and laugh constantly. Although, he hasnt kissed me yet.. I invited him over to my house for thursday and he said he wants to kiss me then and practically asked for my permission which I thought was super cute:) I have kissed 3 different guys before (many many times each) but I've never been this nervous to kiss anyone before.. What can I do to keep calm because I'm so nervous that I've broke down into tears a few times:/ help?

just ask him to go slow and let him do what he wants. now if he ask for sex it is up to you but I say not yet because you are only 15 and are not ready to be a mom. But it is ok to let him touch you on your front & back bottom hafe. and it does fill good. trust me I know.

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I have to be honest with you in order to get a full answer to my question. I am a 28 year old guy from the UK and I am a convicted sex offender, having been convicted of historic offences when I myself was a child. The offences only came to light when I walked into a police station and handed myself in without warrant for my arrest. The judge, when sentencing me, said that, had I not handed myself in, the offences would probably never have come to light. He also said that I should look at rebuilding my life and return to University, which I was unable to complete because of the case. Probation officers working with me repeat that and often tell me not to be as hard on myself as I am being. I am going through a behavioral course for sex offenders to encourage me not to reoffend and I am serving a community based sentence.

What I don't understand is WHY do many people believe that, after the torment and destruction I have caused to my victims (plural) when offending and to bring it back up and hurt even more people in the process, obliterating more lives, that I deserve another chance? In my eyes, I should have been put to death, but we abolished the death penalty before I was born. Do I really deserve another chance at life when I have destroyed the lives of my victims? Or am I right and I should never see the light of day again?

Everyone deserves a 2ed chance

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I know i'm not crazy & I don't want people to think I'm crazy. I hear voices talking to me & I feel like there's an evil spirit around me. I hear loud evil noises & when I was 10 years old, an evil spirit even said my name. It scared me but I didn't tell anyone cause I know they wouldn't believe me.

The doctors don't believe me, my parents don't believe me, they think that this is all in my head & that I just have some mental disorder. I even see evil spirits around my house moving around on the walls.

When I was at my grandma's house I heard something evil whispering to me & I go scared and shook for days

I can't sleep either, sometimes I have sleep paralysis. I'll be awake in my room & freeze up, then start hearing voices. I can't talk or move either. I hear voices all day.

I don't understand why nobody believes me or thinks that evil spirits are real. The doctors I went to told me I have psychosis. They just want to tell me it's all made up & I'm being delusional. These voices & spirits scare me. They are always around me & I hear them. These are demons trying to get me!

I don't do drugs or drink alcohol. No one will listen to me or believe me. I believe these voices are REAL

How do I get rid of evil??

Pray and demeand them to leave in Gods name

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I am 24 year old female now I was molested by my dad when I was 3 years old and recently for the past week I have not been able to sleep because I have been having nightmares about what had happened when I was little and in my dream I was at my aunt's house and my daddy was arrested and then they put me in the police car and then put my daddy in another police car and then I every time I have this dream I wake up kicking screaming in a cold sweat and then when i am through kicking and screaming i am out of breath and can't breathe .Is this normal ? I talked to my cousin and my aunt about this and they asked me if my mom has ever mentioned it to me and I said yes I was just hoping she was lying is this normal for me to want my mom to be lying to me about something as terrible and tragic about something like this ? I feel bad because I want my mom to be lying and i am confused and scared . I just want the dreams to stop . my cousin says that everything is true she just wanted me to know that my mom is not lying so I wouldn't hold a grudge against her . my Aunt says he was arrested and at her house but she doesn't know how I know that when I wasn't at her house when he was arrested . How do I know that ? my mom didn't tell me that so how do I know ? my cousin and aunt are on my dad's side of the family if that helps. how do I get over this ? I never had these dreams before why now ? my cousin says if I have to to get over it to cut all ties like stop visiting my dad's grave at the cementary and get rid of alll pictures of him but my aunt says not to let this stop loving my daddy becuase my dad had alot of mental problems and he was just a sick man . my aunt says his daddy beat him with a handle of a butcher knife in the head and he was in the vietanam war got in a car accident and got shot up a light pole and got sprayed with agent orange and he was already mentally off before all this happened so should I let what he did go or do like what my cousin says be threw with him .

Yes it is normal. and you need to for give him and let it go. I KNOW IT CAN BE HARD. Because i was molested when i was 3 too and by my brother. I am 17 about to be 18 and i still have bad dreams about it. When you forgive him (your dad) then you will fill better but you also need to forgive yourself. I knoow you didn't do it but you mite be blaming youself.But you could not do any thing to stop him.

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Hiii.... I'm 14 yrs old F... So let's start. In 2009 my dad died of cancer. It was very drimatic for me. It was so bad I had to go to a doktor. My mom dated ever since but it allways ended up badly* and you know how mothers are* So she took it out on us. Recently she started dating a guy. And ever since she did she is like pushing me away..* when she goes and visit him she just leaves us at my grandma. And when she is back she is allways screaming on me.* I tried to talk to her but it makes things worts...* there is nobody I could talk 2...* so if you have any advice I would apriciate it.* thX!!

Your mves and cares about you more than you think she does she is having a hard time.

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I'm a teenage girl. I have been a Christian for much of my life, but recently I've felt like I'm not meant to be a Christian.

Here are a few things I want to say:
- I appreciate diversity in religion as well as many other things. I think people should be accepted for who they are, regardless of what they believe.
- I believe that all people have worth and all people need a voice.
- I'm not sure about my beliefs about death, but I know I don't believe in Hell.
- I believe that God is everywhere -- I think God is the spirit of life that is in us and all around us. I don't think of God as a deity that can alter the workings of the natural world.
- I believe strongly in being kind to other people as well as the Earth.
- I think of Jesus as a teacher who showed people how to live a life of love and compassion, and I admire the power of his love and the way he lived. Not too much more than that.
- I think people should never stop exploring their beliefs and values.

Thank you for any advice you might have. (By the way, I'm very sorry if what I said offends anyone in any way. I know many people think differently than I do, and I do not intend to insult anyone else's beliefs.)

I am 17 about to be 18. I recamind you read 23 Minutes In Hell it is athe truth and a little scary for a 14 year old but it will change your put of veawe. Hell is reail.

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