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i have made a stupid mistake...*
Hi... 14/F please don't juge me..* but a friend of me asked for naked pics. It was a depressing and awfull day and he wouldn't stop asking even if I said no* so I sended him a pic and a video. And he promised he wouldn't say* but he did and I'm afraid its going to be the whole school full!* what sould I do please help??
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You can never change the past but you can always change the time ahead of you. No one has the right to juge anybody we all have made a big or a small mistake. I have and I cant take it back even.
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Its too late to undo it hon. I remember a movie about something similar and the teasing and bullying and the whole school making one girls life miserable. Even when her mom got involved there was nothing the principle could technically do.
If you do end up getting harassment from all your peers, you are going to need some loving support. I am a mom and have 3 daughters in their 20's. If my daughter confessed to having done such a thing, I would see it as one of the dumb things we all do as teens. I would still love her and want to support her through this awful experience.But I would be angry at the young boy who placed such pressure on my daughter. There will be other girls he'll do the same thing to. I would want to confront him and his parents not because it would rectify thats already been done but to make sure that he doesnt do it again. All I can think of is to ask your mom the same thing, not to judge you but give you some emotional support. Don't try to go through it alone. The kids who try that likely will begin to fail in all their classes or drop out of school. It would be worth putting you in another school.
Next time someone harasses you for whatever reason and won't take no for an answer, you report that person to what ever authorities there are...in school that would be the principal...Adults with someone harassing them would call the police.
By the way, I wouldnt consider the person who did this a friend...a classmate yes...but a friend doesnt treat a friend that way.
I hope you end up coming out of this a stronger person and learn how to not let anyone else ever push you around and try to make you do something you dont want to do. What you could have done is shown mom all the texts from him asking for such stuff and telling her that you've said no over and over and he keeps harrassing you and its been going on for ___ days. She would've done something about it to protect you. I think its still a good idea to get mom involved. You can always tell her you didnt ask for her help cus you were scared and tell her what you were scared of, that perhaps you thought she'd believe you invited this kind of attention, or you thought if you sent what he wanted that he'd leave you alone.
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