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does she (my mother) even care anymore??
Hiii.... I'm 14 yrs old F... So let's start. In 2009 my dad died of cancer. It was very drimatic for me. It was so bad I had to go to a doktor. My mom dated ever since but it allways ended up badly* and you know how mothers are* So she took it out on us. Recently she started dating a guy. And ever since she did she is like pushing me away..* when she goes and visit him she just leaves us at my grandma. And when she is back she is allways screaming on me.* I tried to talk to her but it makes things worts...* there is nobody I could talk 2...* so if you have any advice I would apriciate it.* thX!!
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You mom does care for you just in ways you do not see. I would suggest the best person to talk to and ask for help with this situation is grandma. Especially if grandma is you moms mother.
You may find this hard to believe but even as adults we do tend to listen to our parents when they talk to us. You will when you get to be moms age. It's called respect and something we all have for our parents. We may not always follow our parents advice. Though when our parents say they have something they wish to discuss with us there are very, very few of us who do not sit down and listen.
Mom is still grieving and doing so in a typically bad way. She misses your dad and companionship. Which is why she is dating as hard as you say she is. Talk to grandma as she may not see this, see only what mom is telling here and not aware of how this is hurting you and your siblings.
So my advice is talk to grandma and ask her for help.
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Your mves and cares about you more than you think she does she is having a hard time.
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It sounds like she's grieving and handling this the wrong way.
She cares, she just doesn't have a good way of showing it.
I would suggest telling your concerns to your grandma and then maybe she can talk to her.
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Of course she cares, She is grieving.
Did your mother ever seek help after the loss of your father? Perhaps her dating may be her way if coping and filling a void if loneliness. This wouldn't be a healthy way no, but the only way she knows how. Talk to grandma, Tell her your concerns ir even an Aunt or an Uncle that is close to your mom. She may need to see a therapist who can help her
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