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confusion over marriage
i hav had sex many times.n nw my parents want tht i should get merried with other person.im tense coz im not able for it.if i get married hw can i make my hsbnd satisfied?
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You said that your parents want you to marry. Is it because you had sex with someone? I don't know if your culture has beliefs that women should be virgins when they marry or not. Some countries, the parents fear no one will want to marry their daughter if they know shes had sex already.
The way it should be around the world, is that two people are madly in love with each other and want to marry each other. That may not be the way its done where you live. If you do have the final choice in the matter, marry only if you really care about him. The learning how to please the husband is something you learn over time. A good husband will want to equally learn how to please the wife instead of treat her like a being without feelings and needs herself. The best marriages are the ones where both partners put in maximum effort to make it work, not just what the wife does to please her husband.
Every man has his own personal tastes and favorite foods, or favorite hobbies, and favorite things sexually. So no person can tell you how to please him. Only he can tell you what he likes. From anyone else, it will only be a guess
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I'm assuming this is an arranged marriage? That's the only time I can think that parents have a say in your choices of spouse. At any rate, you needn't worry about satisfying your husband. Over time, people figure out how to please their partners, just from experience and time with them.
If you don't want to get married, though... I recommend not doing it.
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