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This person is bullying me


Question Posted Saturday September 7 2013, 5:58 am

This girl at school (actually has my name) is being a little jerk. There are these water fountains at school connected to eachother so if both run at a time they run low pressure... I was filling up my water bottle before PE and she kept turning on the other fountain and making mine spray low... I told her not to fuck around and let me fill my damn bottle and she says "I was here first!" and I think why doesn't she get a stupid drink and quit fucking around in the first place. She also uses phrases to me like "None of your beeswax!" (LAME!!). I'm not hurt but I just wanna know if I should do something about it or just give her a dirty look or scare her out of messing with me (Trust me, I'm A LOT bigger than her). I'm also friends with her brother.

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lightoftruth answered Saturday September 7 2013, 4:56 pm:
Well she's acting like a child, really immature and it can be really frustrating to deal with people like that.
You will meet plenty of people who want to push your buttons. I think for now, just ignore her. If she takes it to the next level then you should report her.
She's pretty much is acting like a child and hasn't learned to grow up. So just ignore her when she's around, or do your best and that will probably bother her a lot.

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amyallen answered Saturday September 7 2013, 4:28 pm:
just keep smailing at her and soon enufe she will reconnase that it is not bathering you then she will stop it mite take a long time but it works

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adviceman49 answered Saturday September 7 2013, 3:28 pm:
This part of what you wrote; "I'm also friends with her brother," may be the key to the whole problem. It is called sibling rivalry. By messing with you she is in her mind messing with her brother. Why I can't say.

The one thing you do not want to do is mess with her in anyway that she can say something to school authorities that would get you in trouble. School has just started for the year in most of the country and this is really not the best way for the two of you to start the year.

None of your beeswax??? I haven't heard that since I was in high school and trust me that was many decades ago. This girl is either living in the past or watching to much old time television programing. Since she is living in the past the correct answer would be to tell her to keep her mouth shut or her marbles may fall out.

Joking aside just ignore her and try to avoid her. If she seeks you out report her harassment of you to a teacher or the school principal or say something to her brother if you want. It doesn't sound like she is worth getting in trouble at school over.

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