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Last Update: December 20, 2013
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I am a 14 year old female. About a week ago I developed a sore throat, followed by a really bad cough. I had a bit of a runny nose but nothing unlikely. I didn't think much of it untill in the course of being sick I got a really bad sore throat. It felt unbearable. I went to school and in my health class we started talking about STDS and stuff. Where there I was informed that if your partner has HIV and you perform oral you can get throat cancer. A few days before I got my sore throat I had given my boyfriend a blow job. From there I became skeptical about throat cancer.. I don't think my boyfriend has HIV but I'm not sure. i don't drink or smoke or anything that can trigger throat cancer but it has almost been 2 weeks and I have another sore throat that I can't handle anymore. It is so painful it hurts to eat, swallow, even drink water. It feels bruised. Please help! This is keeping me up all night and I can't take it, it hurts way too much. (link)
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Don't take this wrong way and I'm not judging you but it sounds to me like you have strep throat. I know I don't know your boyfriend personally but if he's a teenage boy he's horny and sticks it every where chances are his penis isn't that clean or he didn't clean it well therefore there are germs on it which you've swallowed. Giving you strep throat. What is strep throat?
Strep throat is a bacterial infection in the throat and the tonsils. The throat gets irritated and inflamed, causing a sudden, severe sore throat. You definitely don't have cancer. The symptoms wouldn't have shown up that fast. Getting cancer from giving head is rear. And I really don't think you have HIV those symptoms showed up way too fast for that. All you need to do is go to the dr. And get him to give you some antibiotics and you should be fine if this was a cold that cough and sore throat would have went away by now.
Hoped I helped some. And you're really young so be careful out there you never know what people have.
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Hi..am from India, 21/f. Recently i diagnosed and come to know that i have polycystic ovary.my two ovaries are slightly enlarged and have multiple tiny cysts.i am also gain weight very fast and have periods problems.i am very tensed that i can't get pregnant...anybody suggest me how can i deal with the PCOD?? (link)
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I have the same problem. It goes away after a while with excersize and a low carb diet. You MUST exercise and eat lots of vegetables. no carbs bread past rice. Also get this book Pcos for dummies. I exercised and followed the diet and my cyst are gone. I had horrible heavy periods too. My doctor prescribed birth control for me to regulate my hormones. And my period is a lot better and not heavy any more. And don't think you can't get pregnant. Once you have a period that means your body is producing eggs from the ovaries to be fertilized. It might just be a little harder but not impossible.
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Yes I understand that it was stupid an unresponsible of me to bring it in the bathroom, but it slipped and fell in the toilet. It had a case on it and I immediently got it out, dried it off, etc. It seems to work fine, but I don't know... It turns on right and stuff but I'm really worried :( help (link)
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The same thing happened to me only I had a bottle water in my purse that fell. My iPhone was fine for 3 weeks then slowly it be began to fuck up. First the screen was fuzzy then the speaker didn't work. Then when people called me I could hear them but they couldn't hear me. It'll be fine for now but wait 3 weeks to a month if nothing happens you're good if after 3 weeks it starts acting up then sorry you're screwed if you don't have insurance
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Okay, so all of a sudden this week, my friend stopped talking to me. I texted him yesterday and he said that he was just feeling sad. I asked him what was wrong and he wouldn't tell me. He didn't feel like talking about it and I respected that. I was cool with it all until I texted him and he told me to **** off and to stop texting him. I can't help feel that I did something wrong, but he's like my best friend and i don't know what I could've done to make him mad. I feel like I did something wrong, at least that's how he's treating it. Though, I don't remember doing anything that could've upset him. I'm really worried about him and I don't know what to do. I stopped texting him but I'm so confused and worried. :/ (link)
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I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Something similar happened to me years ago. The fact that he told you to fuck means that the problem is with him. If he was your real friend he would have told you what was wrong with him. I know this hard cause he is you best friend but you have to leave him alone. He made it very clear that he wants to be left alone in the rudest way. Don't wreck your brain trying to figure out what you did wrong. I can assure you that you aren't the problem. Wish him well from afar.
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Okay, so back around September, I met a guy in the student union at my university. He was totally cute and sweet and invited me to a party the next day and gave me his number to text him about it if I wanted to go. The next day, I text him around 6 pm asking about the party and he said it was "all full" and that if I give him my name, he'd text me about the next party. Well, it's now December, and he never texted me about any other parties. I really felt a spark with this guy, is there any way I have a chance at anything with him? Was he just being a jerk and uninviting me to the party? Would it be weird if I texted him out of the blue now? Please give any advice you can! (link)
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Ok sweetie it's time to move on cause dude is a total douch bag. It' makes no scenes having a party and then having the nerve to say oh it filled up. REALLY ???? That's bullshit. The point of having a party (especially a college party) is to invite to invite the most people you can. Here is what I think happened he probably met some chick or got back together with his ex who is probably going to the same party he invited you to and didn't want you to find out about it. Whatever don't even waist your time thinking about this guy or this situation anymore forget about him. And no you should not waist your time texting him
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I am 37 yrs old single,unmarried & unemployed man living with my parents in Calcutta,India.This is my hometown. I am confused with my career and life. I don't know what are my goals or what to do? Only thing I presently understand is that I need to remove my 'single' status from my CV & I need a female life-partner(I'm straight guy). Why I am so late is a very long story but in gist I can say that my family(consists of my parents and sister & bro-in-law who stays far away in another city of India viz. Mumbai) & I do no go along & I have a troubled relationship with them often leading to violent fights and breakage by me.
Now this sister's husband is the Country Manager of a Pharma company where I used to work earlier as a Medical Representative but left due to job dissatisfaction and not being able to meet targets Overall I dont want to go back to sales. After that I was pursuing CCNA but in the midst my sister agreed to help me get a job in her husband's office as a Office Admin[BTW,I am a BSc(Pure Science)] in Mumbai city.
Now I am in a dilemma,since they are also offering to start a pharma stockist wholesale business in our premises as an alternative & since my brother-in-law is in a pharma company ,my father is saying that he will be able to guide me in this business. But they will also take another partner who is by relation my mother's brother (not real brother though) . Actually my parents dont treat me like their son anymore and they rely on their daughter and son-in-law since they are rich and powerful.
So I am confused with which of these options to take ? The job in Mumbai has an annual package of 2.75 lakhs Rupees whereas the business may be a success or failure ,also i have no idea of business and what my father is saying that it is better to join the Mumbai Office Admin job rather than doing business since return from business takes time and may even be a loss in which case I dont know what will happen since the entire capital will be invested by my brother-in-law.
So seeing my condition ,what should I do? Should I rely on my sister & brother-in-law and do either business or work in the job offered?
Or should I try something on my own?
Is it good to rely upon them?
Please looking for some generously given good advice. I dont want to get dependent on them and hear their words forthe rest of life.I am really in need of some good advice. I am in crisis situation .Plz help.. (link)
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Hello there. Your story is very complicated filled with twist and turns. It seems like you just want someone to tell you what to do...... to make the decision for you. The truth is it's all up to you. I live in America; and where I'm from a 37 year old man that lives with his parents Is frowned upon because it shows That he is not independent. I know Indian culture is different family means a lot and an adult living with parents is Normal; but there is a reason your parents brother and sister in-law don't respect you. It is because you rely on them way too much. It is time you stand up on your own two feet and do what's best for you. Your family will never respect you until you come out of the shadows and control your own destiny. If you want a relationship you have to bring something to the table no woman likes an unemployed man. Remember this, IF YOU WANT SOMETHING YOU'VE NEVER HAD DO SOMETHING YOU'VE NEVER DONE. Don't worry about what your dad says or how much money you'll get or what others think of you. Close your eyes relax and think about what you want out of life most and it will come to you. Follow your passion and every thing else will fall into place.
I hope I helped you a little
Best of luck to you.
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do anyone know about the job corps program like I know that the "school" provides boarding and all that stuff but I was wondering do someone know how much money they give a week and how much they give you once you "graduate " from their ??? im planning on going their this month and im a little nervous because I personally doesn't know who anyone who remember what its like my grandmother went but she cant seem to remember but she remembers that you receive money for attending and after
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Hey there I went to the job corp when I was 17 I'm 31. My memory is a little rusty by ill tell you what I remember the job corp is loads of fun you meet all types of people so don't be worried about not knowing anyone. When you get there you wl be with about 12 other people a small group it will be there first day to so off the bat you make friends the call these people inputs because you are being put into the system. It's a small community so you maje friends fast you might even see someone you know. Your inputs are like you family. I remember when I got there like the 3rd or 5th day I felt like I knew these people my whole life.
Now asked fir the money when I went it was the year 1998 to 1999 so I don't know if the rules changed. But I got 34 dollars a week for poker money to buy soap toothpaste ramen oodles and noodels stuff like that. Then every months the job corps will give me 50 dollars but I wasn't given that money till I graduated. So it saves up in an account they have for you.
The longer you stay the more money you get. Like your 34 dollars per week will go up to 54 dollars a week. If you're a good student you behave and your teacher give you a good evaluation. Their version of a report card you'll get extra money on your pay check. They pay you in cash too.
If you complete your trade and graduate you get 500 dollar bonus if you graduate and find a job in 3 months after you graduate you get a 300 dollar bonus when I left I got my g.e.d and cosmotology trade so I got 1500 which to be was a lot at 17 years old lol.
Some things to remember you will be drug tested. If you fail the drug test and a lot of kids do cause the. Smoke weed you will be locked down on campus for 90 days
Make friends but stay to your sf hrs easy to get in trouble
Remember some of these kids were kicked out school fire being bad or some grew up in foster care so there can be kids who steal and are problematic
Job cities is great place with a lot of opportunity so take advantage
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First off, my best friend and I have been friends for a about 2 years now. We have been close ever since, but suddenly this couple months she started dating this guy I hate, she loved him so what can I do? I told her how I felt about him, but I'm not sure if she did anything... 5-6 months or so, they broke up. She dumped him for several reasons; I rather not say what. But thing is after that we talk for many hours!! I mean like hours!! and all she talks about is her bf at times, of how she misses him.
I just feel like she comes to me when she needs something, before she doesnt talk to me much when they started dating. So in the past couple months she met some new friends, and she makes up excuses to be with them rather than be with me... I don't know I'm so confuse :( (link)
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It's simple she's over you. And she moved on. She's what you call a somatime friend some of the time she's there some of the time she isn't. She's with you when it's convenient for her so that's not a true friend. People will come in and out of your life and stay for just a season true friends never leave. You're season with her is up. I know it hurts but you have to move on. Don't waist your time and energy trying to figure out what you did wrong. You're not the problem she is. You'll meet someone else more deserving of your friendship.
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i have been trying to find a job since i was 20.. tried fast food, tried mom and pop shops, tried local ads, cant go back to school til i pay off my student loans. credit score is around 200 and im only 25. i applied to food stamps in 2011 and got turned down. i applied for unemployment they said there was no problem for me to find a job. im really considering going bankrupt. unlless i can find some kind of job. can u help? (link)
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You're going through what a lot of people are going through in America unfortunately . But I have a few questions of my own. What state do you live in? Is it the kind if place where yo need car or can you Rely on public transportation. What are you good at
Do you like cutting hair
Cleaning
Music
Are you a big guy maybe you can be a bouncer at a club
Maybe you can sign up with an agency
Ask the unemployment office to help look for work
Ask your school if they can help with any jobs
Ask neighbors if they no anyone who's hiring
Go in a store you might like to work pretend you're a customer and ask someone there if their hiring.
I wish I can help some more but your situation is really tough good luck
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So I've been talking to/hooking up with this guy that I met about a month ago. We have good chemistry together and don't seem to ever run out of things to talk about so things are going well between us. The thing is that he's 33 and I'm 19.
We've already had sex once but we're making plans to have a sleepover together soon and I was just seeking some advice as to what older guys might like in bed.. I know everybody has their own preference, and we're comfortable with each other so I can ask questions (like "do you like when I do that/what do you want me to do"), but what may be something that could kind of 'wow' him from me?
Being younger, I definitely don't think I'm as experienced as he is. My sex life for the past 2 1/2 years has been with the same guy, my ex-boyfriend, so I'm a little nervous that what I'm used to may be a little boring.
Any tips would be appreciated.. thanks! (link)
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Be your self. But if you really want to know what he likes ask him what his fantasy is and take it from there. I know I'm going to sound like an old lady and you probably don't want to hear what I'm going to say...... But I'll say it any way. The age difference is bothering me. The guy is 33 . Trust me when i say 9 times out of 10 he's up to no good. The fact that you're 19 may mean to him that he's just looking to hook up and when he's done move on to the next victim. If your not emotionally invested go ahead hook and have fun. But I already know its not going to go far. I'm 31 years old. There is nothing that a 33 year old man can have in common long term with a 19 year old. P.S just because he's older doesn't make him any different to a 19 year old guy. Men are all the same when it comes to sex and their pretty simple. You could brush you hair in front of him and he'll get turned on.
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If I eat healthy, drink water and work out an hour everyday can I lose 80 pounds by December/January? (link)
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You most definitely can. But you never mentioned how much you weigh right now it all depends. If your like over 300 pounds definitely but it you're like 200 190 no it will be very difficult the closer you get to your gold the harder it becomes.so if you're bigger you lose fast if your smaller you'll lose but it will be slower. You have your work cut out for you that's a lot of weight to lose. 20 pounds a month you can do any thing you put your mind to. Have you ever watched that reality show called the biggest loser? Those people lose weight fast but they work really hard and workout for more than an hour per day. Cut out bread pasta soda dairy fried foods any thing with high fructose corn syrup soda. And most importantly NO SUGAR sugar is the enemy trust me I speak from experience. Walk on an incline on the treadmill for an hour it does wonders for all over your body. 6 times a week one day rest. Eat lots of fruits and vegetables invest in a juicer juice veggies and go on a 3 or4 day juice fast to cleanse your body and speed up the weight lose process. Hope I helped you out.
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