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nervous about our first kiss together..
Hey everyone! So I'm a f/15:) I like this guy who is also 15 very very much and it has been practically "love at first sight" for us because we never had that friend zone between us; we just skipped to the flirty stage!:) we've been on a date last week to the movies and dinner after wards and all went super well!:) Im so happy when I'm with him because he makes me smile and laugh constantly. Although, he hasnt kissed me yet.. I invited him over to my house for thursday and he said he wants to kiss me then and practically asked for my permission which I thought was super cute:) I have kissed 3 different guys before (many many times each) but I've never been this nervous to kiss anyone before.. What can I do to keep calm because I'm so nervous that I've broke down into tears a few times:/ help?
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You need to know he's as scared shitless as you are silly ;) You both feel the same way and it's okay to both admit it to the other. You obviously like eachother and both want this to occur. My advice is to stop thinking and analyzing it and just do it. It will work out fine and you'll know what to do from previous experience.
Just let it happen. If you want to kiss him nothing says you can't first. He's asked permission which means he's unsure of himself and wants to make sure you're down with the idea. Take the pressure off and initiate the kiss and let it unfold. One of you has to do this or nothing will happen.
It's unfortunate you were in tears over this with anxiety I sure he'd be heartbroken to know that. However, once you lean in and go for broke as they say it'll pan out with what you hoped for.
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It's completely normal to be nervous about your first kiss with someone new. That's why I always hated when a guy asked me if he could kiss me because it'd give me time to think about it instead of thinking of what a good time I'll be having just being around him.
So don't stress out over it. Do your best not to think about it when you're with him. Just enjoy his company and when the kiss happens, it'll happen so just go with it.
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just ask him to go slow and let him do what he wants. now if he ask for sex it is up to you but I say not yet because you are only 15 and are not ready to be a mom. But it is ok to let him touch you on your front & back bottom hafe. and it does fill good. trust me I know.
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