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How can I not get so attached to guys I have a little thing with?
I met this guy over the summer. He just graduated from my school but we didn't even know each other until the summer. He's going into college so I knew I'd only know him for a few weeks, but I talked to him anyway. He seemed to really like me and I REALLY liked him. We hung out a few times and hooked up once. Now that it's over, I'm so upset! He's in college now and he doesn't hit me up anymore. I fell for him HARD and I do that a LOT when it comes to guys ! How do I not get so attached to a guy so quickly? Even if I'm just talking to a guy, I always get really attached to the guy I'm talking to and really upset when it comes to an abrupt end. Is it me? Am I doing something wrong? All of my friends get over their guys soooo easily and I always dwell on the guy I was previously talking to. I've never been in a real relationship and maybe I just think I'm close to getting it and then it goes away. I don't know. HELP !!
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alright... your just like me...you have some insecurities with relationships because you have never really had one and as bad as it may sound it's not but it's gets to a desperation where you crave and seek affection from the next availiable person. it's an obstacle that is hard to face... all i can tell you that might encourage you to face these insecurities is my story.... i was heartbroken after heartbroken because i finally got someone giving me affection and i made a fanasty about what it could be in my head... move slow girl and don't seek. i finally stopped looking because the pain was getting to real.... that happened three years ago and i have been in a 3 year relationship am engaged and have a 5 month old son... don't focus so much on it, learn to love yourself to the fullest and become completely secure and things will fall into place.
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