|
Driving Me Nuts!
I'm 17 and she's 15 we do it(have sex) every week once, I do NOT put my penis COMPLETELY inside her because it reaches like sort of a layer thing in there so I'm afraid not to break that layer maybe blood might come out! But I did ask and they said "since you can put your penis inside her then she's not a virgin" but guys! we NEVER EVER saw any blood after I put my penis inside her for FIRST time! Isn't BLOOD! supposed to come out if it's the first time anybody ever puts his finger AND penis inside her vagina!? or no,blood comes out after I completely put my penis and break that layer inside?
-ThankYou.
High Fives to all like usual xD
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
From my personal experiences, I've never bled at all when I had sex.
Blood doesn't indicate whether she's a virgin or not. When you have sex, you're no longer a virgin.
The layer you're probably talking about is her hymen. It's not supposed to break or tear. That's just a "myth". The hymen actually stretches and only covers part on the vagina inside. I mean if it covered the whole thing, she wouldn't be able to have her period.
If a girl does bleed, it's because something's not right. Either the guy went too fast and didn't go slow her first time, was too rough or didn't have enough lubricant.
So my advice would be to go slow at first. You're not supposed to break the layer, so go slow. It will probably hurt her, so give it time.
My first time having sex, it was painful and I couldn't let him go in all the way. So the next time and the next time, it began to get easier. Also, I'm sure you guys are comfortable to talk to each other so try talking to her about masturbating. I mean she can help herself stretch her hymen.
]
Some girls hymen's don't bleed.
Some are already broken long before they have sex, others simply don't bleed much, or at all, when they are broken.
For many couples, the male's penises is longer than the female's vagina is deep.
There is no way for us to tell you from this question if your girlfriend's hymen is still intact, or if that is what you are bumping up against.
But the simple thing is this: Virginity isn't really about 'having a hymen'. Lots of women who have never had sex, don't have an intact hymen. Sports, exercise or tampons can all break the hymen. Virginity and hymen are just not the same thing. Virginity is about NOT having sexual contact with other people. If you are putting your penis in her vagina - even just a bit - you two are having sexual contact, and in my opinion, neither should consider yourself a virgin.
]
I never bled when I lost my virginity so I doubt it applies to everyone. Everyone is different
]
More Questions: |