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The letter and the ambiguous meaning of "needing space"
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 11:05 pm
I've...sigh...I was dating this great guy for almost 3 months. Things were great, he's great albeit sometimes a little distant. He's sort of introverted and is used to his independence. Maybe I pushed too hard on trying to find a label or I didn't know how to ask how he felt about me. We had had a conversation that he wasn't ready for a relationship, but being exclusive with me was the thing for him. Which is ohh I dunno...a relationship. Whatever. I know he likes me and I like him too, and miss him.
It was mutual I guess, I didn't want to trap anyone into a relationship they didn't want to be in and he wasn't ready to admit that IT was what he was in and liking it. Either way we broke it off and the next day I texted me and he aske...
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Why is it so easy for him??
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 10:56 pm
So I was dating this guy for about four years on and off. I know I screwed him over alot and I treated him like dirt but I always went back to him cause I knew noone could ever take his place. He was my best friend and I didn't wanna lose him so I made it up to him and we always got back together. But it wasn't just me... He was constantly jealous and constantly starting fights with me for no reason. I use to get so annoyed with him. But about this time last year we got back together after a 6 month split... And he was different he treated me like i wasn't his main priority anymore and when we would fight he'd bring up how I cheated on him in the past.. Its like he turned into me and we switched places and I put up with it cause I thought I...
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Ex boyfriend blues
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 10:41 pm
As my subject says, I have the ex boyfriend blues.
He broke up with me five days ago when I was away at a friends 1,000 miles away from him. He called and broke it off, claiming it wont work out. He told me it was because of my friendships with other boys and such and he can't handle it. Later is also claimed that it was my devotion that drove him nuts as well.
I'm a very devoted person, I'll give them my all, and do as much as I can to make them happy. I was loyal and loving, and always knew when something was up. He would get aggrivated with me when I was sad, and made me feel abnormal and useless. He felt like my depression was just for attention, for he has never felt depressed in his entire life. I felt so...
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I think i might be gay
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 10:28 pm
Okay im 16/f and i started having sex at age 13 ive only had sex with men i enjoy it but i always have fantasys about women and i fine them attractive sexually and emotionally, ive never done anything with a girl only a kiss. Im with a man right now but i feel like something wrong i wish i could figure myself out please help me
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Watching shows/movies online...
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 10:26 pm
My computer runs on wireless, something called Frontier and it's definitely faster than the dial up we used to have. Recently, though, it takes almost ten minutes to buffer a 24 minute video, sometimes even a two minute youtube vid, but my friend says her youtube tends to get slow too.
I watch most of my shows on hulu too. Is it the site or is it my Internet that's being slow?
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I want to wait for him.
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 9:15 pm
My boyfriend and I were going out for 6 months, and a few days ago, he said he gave it his best shot, but just wasn't ready for another relationship, and because of his issues, what he was feeling wasn't love. (He got divorced a few years ago and has a kid). He said he still cares for me very very much, he doesn't want to date anyone else and wants me in his life whether I like it or not...thing is, I just don't think I can be in his life as just a friend...at least, not forever. I truly believe he is my soulmate, and that is something I have never been more sure of. I want to wait for him. But I am not sure if I should let him know how I feel...I know I am still in the grieving process, and I know there is denial and a strong feeling ...
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What else should I do in order to raise more money to take more classes?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 9:11 pm
I love ballet and I take three ballet classes a week which is three and a half hours of ballet, I also practice at home. I started when I was twelve and I'm in a Ballet 3 class which is before PrePointe. I wish I could take more classes a week and go to a better ballet school but my parents and I don't have enough money. I'm going to try and start baby sitting but there are tons of babysitters in my neighborhood so that might not work out. How can I become a a serious ballet student without spending tons of money? Do I have a chance at becoming a ballerina one day? What else should I do in order to raise more money to take more classes?
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How Long Does the Bleeding Last?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 8:21 pm
So I know you bleed for the first time you have sex but I was wondering how much and how long?
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Capstone project slogan
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 7:18 pm
17/f
I'm doing a capstone project about mental health needs of adults suffering from depression and loneliness. I was thinking about giving away little cards with slogans along with friendship bracelets. The problem is, I don't know what to put as the slogan... Should I put, "someone is thinking of you." Or something. I'm not sure, I'm not trying to make it into a business card, I want to make it nice and simple. Help please?!
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Am I just being paranoid?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 5:49 pm
Okay. I'm 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. He's 19 and in college but I'm still in high school. He used to do tons of cute stuff for me and I would tell all my friends about how he's the best boyfriend. Lately though it's been weird. One day we will be together and everything is fine. We will laugh and cuddle and everything normal. Then the next day it's like we are just friends hanging out. We never fight and we've always seemed perfect. I'm afraid that since I'm going off to college in the fall he doesn't know if he still wants to be with me. I'm afraid to talk to him because every time I have in the past I've been dumped. I'm really insecure about myself so I guess I just feel like I'm not good enough for him. He tells ...
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How many days after i have had sex can i get a pregnancy test?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 5:15 pm
19/f whose not on birth control. i had sex with my bf the other night and im pretty sure he cummed inside me. he used a condom and after we did it i felt really weird. i wasnt sure if it was me being turned on but i think it was cum everywhere. he double checked and looked at the condom and it wasnt broken. so thats weird right? do you think im pregnant? If so my main question is how many days after i have had sex can i get a pregency test. because i thought that you cant after so many weeks or something so its accurate. thanks.
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One beer and not feeling well..
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 4:21 pm
17 years old/female/110 pounds
story short: after one beer I get nauseous and feel like i need to throw up. This happened about 3 or 4 times and I don't know why. I started drinking in the 9th grade and everything was fine. I'm not a party girl at all but I do go one at least once a month and I've never lost control. I drink to socialize, not to pass out. so..Is this normal? Is my tolerance just really low? What should I do?
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should i stay or should i go?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 4:09 pm
16/f
it's going to be valentines day and one of my close friends wants to spend the day together. the thing is i don't really feel like spending time with her. on friday she made a very rude comment towards me, i just laughed it off. She's not the type of person you can talk to about how she makes you feel, it will just create an argument. I also recently stopped smoking weed in order to get myself together and she expects me to smoke with her every time we're together.
pros of going tomorrow:
-i might get to see the guy i like because whenever i hang out with my friend we usually invite him over since he lives close
- i get to get out of the house (very stressful house situation)
cons:
-i...
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Sexual safety questions
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 4:06 pm
what are the chances of getting pregnant just using a condom? how would i be able to lessen the possibilities? ive never had sex, i have taken sex ed though, twice. also, is there a way of obtaining birth control without a parental guardian? are there different types for different people? do i need a prescription? thanks
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He's going away to college... should I give him my virginity?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 4:04 pm
ive been with my boyfriend for half a year and i am completely comfortable w him and i could defiinitely see myself losing it to him. the only problem is that i know hes goin to college and if i do it w him then hes just gona leave forever you kno. he wants to still see me in college but i feel like those things never work out. i know if i lose it, realistically, im not gonna necessarily get married to the person i lose my virginity to (and im ok with that), but i want it to be with someone who truly cares about me and i truly care about. so what do you think.. should i do it even if i know things for our future dont look good for the sake of losing it to someone i have strong feelings for&am comfortable with?
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bleeding while intercourse
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 3:14 pm
if you bleed while intercourse does that mean u have hiv
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im 16 i havnt had sex and i havnt had my period in a while. please help!
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 2:35 pm
I am 16, Im not new to having my period, I'm a virgin, and I haven't had my period in a while, maybe going on 5-6 weeks. What is going on?? I'm 99.9% positive that I'm not pregnant because the only thing that ever happened to me was a boy tried to finger me, I didn't let him, but he ended up touching me for one second! I highly doubt that did anything but still Some one please help me out here!!!
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cycle and condom correctly?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 1:51 pm
i'm 21 and i was a virgin til last night, i had sex with this guy we ued a condom but i had a question since it was all dark i could just feel it that the condom didnt got to the END of the penis so idk if this is normal, it was placed normal but i thought it had to conver the entire penis but there was this gap at the end so i wanna know if this is normal?...also i forgot all about menstrual cycle and fertile days etc...i just finished my period the day before we had sex, does that mean i have a fewer chance on getting pregnant or a higher one ?
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Is it normal to keep bleeding a few days after cherry is popped?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 1:31 pm
my 16 yr old bf and i had sex last night for the first time and my cherry was popped so i started bleeding on him. it is now almost 24 hours later and im still bleeding down there with pains in the ovary area. how long does the bleeding last after a cherry has been popped?
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How do i delete porn traces from my computer?
Posted Sunday February 13 2011, 1:14 pm
I have a laptop its an hp runs on windows 7, i do look at porn and i have been for a while but ive always had antivirus because i tried every free trial out there now i'm out of free trails and i still look at porn but i always delete my history but ever since the antivirus was gone my computer always lags i cant watch a video ANY video from youtube ect longer that 5 mintues because my computer starts sounding like a broken record and the video keeps pausing and slowing down and i cant listen to music for a long time either of my computer starts acting up the music starts sounding slow and stuff and i have a free malware(not antivirus) thingy that is called spybot and it scans everything and sometimes i look at the details of whats its scan...
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