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should i stay or should i go?
16/f
it's going to be valentines day and one of my close friends wants to spend the day together. the thing is i don't really feel like spending time with her. on friday she made a very rude comment towards me, i just laughed it off. She's not the type of person you can talk to about how she makes you feel, it will just create an argument. I also recently stopped smoking weed in order to get myself together and she expects me to smoke with her every time we're together.
pros of going tomorrow:
-i might get to see the guy i like because whenever i hang out with my friend we usually invite him over since he lives close
- i get to get out of the house (very stressful house situation)
cons:
-i waste my money (i always pay for everything with her)
-part of me will feel miserable being with her
should i go? if so what should we do? any other opinions will be highly appreciated.
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I wouldn't hang out with her. You'll be miserable if you stay home but also with her. I'd find something else to do to get out of the house. Even a guy wouldn't be worth feeling miserable. Try finding some other way to hang out with him. Well, I wouldn't go but it's all up to you and how you feel about it. Good luck!
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It sounds like this friendship has burned itself out and you no longer have much in common. As for the guy you're hoping to see while hanging out with this "friend" why don't you cut out the middle man, so to speak, and get his number so you contact him directly? Let this frienship fizzle out once and for all and find some alternate plans for the day. Hope this helps! Happy Valentine's Day!
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Why are you friends with her? If you have a hard time communicating with her, then the friendship is not a very good one. It's your life. In the end, you're going to make your own decision, but if it were me, I wouldn't go. I'd find something else to do rather than be in bad company.
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