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I think i might be gay
Okay im 16/f and i started having sex at age 13 ive only had sex with men i enjoy it but i always have fantasys about women and i fine them attractive sexually and emotionally, ive never done anything with a girl only a kiss. Im with a man right now but i feel like something wrong i wish i could figure myself out please help me
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Im 16/F and gay :). I was very confused when I just started secondary school because I had so many feelings towards girls, but i thought that i found men attractive. Im not saying that just because I'm gay you will be gay but what I'm trying to say is listen to your feelings. To be completely sure it would be best to experience being with a girl and being with a guy. Thats what I did. And for the whole time I was with a guy it just didnt feel right, I always thought about girls. And when I decided to explore that side of me to see if that was comfortable or whether I was just sexually aroused I found that I really loved women. I'm now in a very stable relationship with a girl. Sometimes if you have fantasies about them it may just been that you fnd them sexually arousing which doesnt necessarily make you gay. But what you need to do is not worry and just enjoy the flow of your life. If that leads to you being with a girl then so be it. Because the more you worry about it and surpress it then you'll always have that feeling with you and especially a feeling of dread. If you feel like something is wrong in your relationship with this guy try a break? Maybe try and flirt with some girls if you find this better for you then this is you. But if you really like guys as well then your just Bisexual. Don't worry about your sexuality and trying to find an answer straight away because you can make very poorly judged decisions. I've helped a lot of people out regarding their sexuality so if you feel like you need some more help inbox me and I'll be happy to help you :) Hope this helps!!xx
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I was very confused at your age too and mostly dated boys but was really turned on by girls. I had my fist sexual experience was when I was 18 and thought it was wonderful. I was still interested in boys but I really loved the way I felt when I was with the girls. I finally realized that I was just a horny girl and loved having sex. It wasn't until my late 20's that I figured out that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with a man. I still get the urge to be with a woman but it can't replace the stability I feel with a man. Don't be afraid to explore both sides of your sexuality and don't get discouraged if you hit on a girl and she turns you down, because you'll find one eventually. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Try dating a girl. If it feels right then thats who you are.
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