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Am I just being paranoid?
Okay. I'm 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for a year now. He's 19 and in college but I'm still in high school. He used to do tons of cute stuff for me and I would tell all my friends about how he's the best boyfriend. Lately though it's been weird. One day we will be together and everything is fine. We will laugh and cuddle and everything normal. Then the next day it's like we are just friends hanging out. We never fight and we've always seemed perfect. I'm afraid that since I'm going off to college in the fall he doesn't know if he still wants to be with me. I'm afraid to talk to him because every time I have in the past I've been dumped. I'm really insecure about myself so I guess I just feel like I'm not good enough for him. He tells me he loves me everyday but something just doesn't feel the same anymore.
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No your not being paranoid your taking caution in the relationship. It's healthy to fight at least once. If you never fight sometimes things can get pretty boring. You need to speak up and voice your opinion to him. If he doesn't hear what you have to say then it's always going to get like this. And you could get really frustrated with him and then keep all your emotions inside which isn't really a good thing to do. Not every relationship is going to be smooth and easy and perfect. It needs to change once and awhile. Ask him if you think this relationship is going to work out for the two of you. If he's ok with you going off to college and everything. Can he deal with you being so far away? Consider your options carefully. And decide what's best for you and for him.
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