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Why is it so easy for him??
So I was dating this guy for about four years on and off. I know I screwed him over alot and I treated him like dirt but I always went back to him cause I knew noone could ever take his place. He was my best friend and I didn't wanna lose him so I made it up to him and we always got back together. But it wasn't just me... He was constantly jealous and constantly starting fights with me for no reason. I use to get so annoyed with him. But about this time last year we got back together after a 6 month split... And he was different he treated me like i wasn't his main priority anymore and when we would fight he'd bring up how I cheated on him in the past.. Its like he turned into me and we switched places and I put up with it cause I thought I deserved it. Then he found out that I had lied to him about something 4 years ago which was pretty vital to our relationship and he won't forgive me.. He's with his ex now and he doesn't love her and he's told me that hell never love anyone or have anything like we had so I ask why we can't make it work but then he makes it seem like our relationship was built on lies and he never truthfully loved me cause of the lie.. I miss him and I want my best friend back but he doesn't want anything to do with me... Idk what I should do.. I've given him 5 months of space and now I feel like I've lost him for good.. I try talking to him but he makes me feel pathetic like I just need to move on... But I don't want to lose him but idk how to keep him...
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Here's the thing, for it to be fixed the past needs to be the past! & you two need to start fresh! You have to try to get the through to him. That's all you need. It sounds like the past is the only problem here. Sometimes people can't let go of it though, try your best to get him to though!
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