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I want to wait for him.
My boyfriend and I were going out for 6 months, and a few days ago, he said he gave it his best shot, but just wasn't ready for another relationship, and because of his issues, what he was feeling wasn't love. (He got divorced a few years ago and has a kid). He said he still cares for me very very much, he doesn't want to date anyone else and wants me in his life whether I like it or not...thing is, I just don't think I can be in his life as just a friend...at least, not forever. I truly believe he is my soulmate, and that is something I have never been more sure of. I want to wait for him. But I am not sure if I should let him know how I feel...I know I am still in the grieving process, and I know there is denial and a strong feeling of not wanting to let go, but I love him still, and grieving stages aside, I TRULY cannot imagine myself with anyone else but him. Should I be his friend and tell him I want to wait, or should I just be his friend?
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Be his friend, help him through this. Don't give up on being with him though! It's obvious that you two care about each other and this is just a bump in the road.
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