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help, im soo confussed. a break in a relationship.
Posted Monday April 16 2007, 7:56 am
14/f
so i have a boyfriend. of 3 months. i love him. and we have said i love you for about 2 months before we started dating. and he ALWAYS wants me to change, and stop talking to my best friend brandon. and he got REALLY pissed off cause when i went away for spring break i hung out with his friend rick, but nothing happened between us. i gave him a hug good bye and thats it. but we never told my boyfriend about it. and found out and now he thinks im fucking around. and he says were on break. and hes like we can still kiss and hold hands durring school. and im like whats break?
what are the standards for a break?
what are the standards when your my age for break?
advice please?
<3
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Why would they seem okay with it?
Posted Monday April 16 2007, 5:12 am
Once you told someone your feelings you feel releaved that you let it off your chest. right?
well i did...
we had a good talk about it, and she didnt understood but i simply explain that i dont know why i do have these feelings but i do for some reson.
later...
i realized she was still my friend and didnt feel awarkered about it. i then ask "why did you seem alright about me telling you how i feel?" i was hoping she will say something but she didnt. and when i ask in a note she didnt even reply.
why is that? why cant it be a simple reply why she seem okay with the fact. yes she still hangs out and talk to me, but i want it in words. all i can think is th...
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what should it be?
Posted Monday April 16 2007, 1:50 am
Me & my baby want a song. We're young & in love so a love song would be nice =] any song suggestions???
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sundays are MY days! (long, sorry)
Posted Monday April 16 2007, 1:03 am
My boyfriend & I have been going out for about five years now. We don't see each other a lot anymore because of us going to school & him working. I go to college around where he lives but I'm a commuter. While I'm at school or leaving school, he's at school too or he's at work. So on weekdays we never see each other. Friday & saturday nights are his nights with his friends. Sunday is always our day because he doesn't work sundays. It has always been this way. But today, or yesterday I guess, he didn't come to see me. Last sunday he didn't either. Both sundays he just stayed over his cousins house. I'm cool with his cousin & all the people that live in their house, they're all like family to me, but he was with them friday &a...
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Whats wrong with me.
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 11:44 pm
I'm 15/f (well 15 this summer) and I've never had a boyfriend. Never had a first kiss or anything. I'm pretty (or so i've been told) I'm easy to get a long with and as long as you respect me then I'll respect you. But whats wrong with me? I've never been asked out or looked at in an affectionate way before. I know im only 15 and I shouldn't worry but all these chicks in my school are freaking ugly and have no self respect and they have boyfriends. So why can't I?
Please don't tell me "your time will come" I've heard that a million and one times.
One of my friends is so annoying and ugly, and she's just a pain in the ass and she's dating this guy in grade 12.
wtf. :(
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dating an experienced kisser
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 11:43 pm
my boyfriend has kissed so many girls (and boys) that its just ridiculous. i have never been kissed. the thought of kissing him makes me really nervous. i'm not asking for kissing advice. but when we do have our first kiss, how bad am i going to be? lol. i mean is he going to be really turned off by me being inexperienced? share your stories, plz, i am nervous. :(
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is it a bad idea to date a boy who has a slutty rep?
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 11:13 pm
so theres this kid. he's pretty much a slut. he's dated like every girl ive ever met. but there's a reason for that; he's really adorable/funny/witty/charming. for the past couple years ive thought he was a really despicable person but within the past three months we've been hanging out like nonstop. he picks me up and calls me every day. hes my friend now, but i like him. a lot. he flirts constantly and asks me out like every other day. when i say no he pretends to get really sad and he'll start laughing and trying to hug me and he'll be like "whyyyy?" i WANT to say yes but ive kept myself from doing it. he makes me so happy and sometimes all i want to do is kiss him. i mean, how bad of an idea is this? should i just go for it? k...
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bad kisser?
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 11:06 pm
my boyfriend is a REALLY bad kisser. i mean i'v kissed people who were bad before, but my boyfriend is really bad.Like he shoves his tounge down my throat literally. i mean im not going to dump him over this. i juss want to be able to kiss him. How do i fix this? thank you for any help.
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Im so confused
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 10:40 pm
so this guy and I went to the movies... he broke up with his girlfriend of 1 1/2 years not too long ago and I broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago [Please keep in mind that I am not really looking to be in a serious relationship right away.]
He was basically flirting with me the entire night...and then once we got to my house we sat in the driveway for like a hour just talking. when i went to get out of the car I went to give him a kiss on the cheek and he moved away saying "Don't do that" when I asked why he said "because I dont want to hurt you"
So later he sent me a text message that said "I'm so sorry" and I was like "For what?" and he said "I just don't w...
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why cant i get a girlfriend
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 9:39 pm
I'm a 16/m and I have never had a girlfriend. I used to be kinda fat in middle school, but i have lost alot of weight and am in great shape. I would say im good-looking, and have a lot of friends who are girls, but it seems like no girls think im boyfriend material. maybe its just that i cant tell if a girl likes me or not. so what should i do?
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ANNOYING.
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 9:31 pm
My best guy friend asked me out a week ago, and I liked him a little, so I said yes. Well... now he's getting annoying, and sometimes I have feelings for him, sometimes I don't. I kinda like someone else, but I know I have no chance with him, but I still don't want to go out with my boyfriend when I don't really like him. Help me, PLEASE.
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Guys are Confusing-help
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 9:07 pm
okay question
do guys actually look at a girls clothes?
what do they like or look at? i know its broad and that every guy is different but im talking about in general.
do they look at eyes?
do they like smart girls, pretty girls, stupid girls, flirty girls.
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Confussed..
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 8:25 pm
There's not much more I can take.
Well my boyfriend (almost 10 months.) and I aren't doing very well anymore. It's just we are very extremly close and since I went back to school because we don't go to the same school, he does cyber school well since September things have kinda changed because he is EXTREMLY jealous. I am too, I know what it's like but he doesn't have contact with anyone anymore. Pretty much the reason he did cyber school was me. Well i'm 14 -- 8th grade (should be in 9th.) and he's 17 -- senior, so he's pretty much done. He want's everything to be about him. It already is. I don't hang out with ANY girls, and I skip school ALOT to be with him, and we've been thru alot. He pretty much told me though he wants ...
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how do i start that conversation
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 7:34 pm
15/f
ok so i told my best friend(a guy)that i liked him alot. he didnt say anything back. we've both tried to have normal conversations but they always end up akward. i know he likes two girls right now. one of them is a girl from another school but he wasn't sure if he really liked her and i dont know who the other girl is. i want to ask him and normally if i hadn't told him i liked him and our conversations weren't so akward he would have told me. so i dont know how to ask him who he likes, his guy friends don't know. he's my best friend and i want our conversations to go back to normal. so how do i get normal conversations and how do i ask him who he likes???
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Why cant he like me like i like him?
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 6:22 pm
Ok! Soo... there's this guy that i like. he's 18, 19 in June. He's really hot. really nice. yet a big asshole sometimes. I like him a whole lot, but im trying to get over him. Im not quite sure how. He's always on my mind every minute of everyday. & even when i go out somewhere to forget him something reminds me of him. Im not sure what to do.
sincerely.
The Confused.
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what's the correct way to do this?
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 6:21 pm
My boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly a month now. I love him and he loves me. We care about each other a lot, but he seems to be so shy around me, and he never finds time to see me on the weekends.
I completely respect his space, and him wanting to see his friends. In fact I would like to see mine as well as often as I can. But even with spring break, he couldn't find one day to see me, and he gives me these excuses. Some friends say he is just shy or isn't comfortable finding time with me or something. I know we just started out, but it'd be nice to see him occasionally instead of seeing him at school. What can I do?
Thanks for your time.
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fact or fiction?
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 6:05 pm
if you have braces and kiss someone else with braces, is there a possibility you can get stuck together?
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what to do
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 5:25 pm
how can you tell the difference in falling out of love w/ someone and just "getting used to them" or whatever.
im 16/f and hes 17/m.. this is my first "real relationship" so its not like ive experienced this before. weve been together 9-10 months.
its like sometimes i love him sooooooo much and i dont kno what id do without him.. other times its just like whatever i dont care and i could go for days without talking to him [we talk every single day [[diff. schools btw]] and its starting to get irritating].
i cant picture myself without him and i dont want someone else to have him and i dont want any one else but sometimes its just UGH ya kno?
what can i do? .. b...
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boyfriendd.
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 4:45 pm
My boyfriend is friends with this girl, and they seem like theyve become closer lately...it all seems innocent, because theyre "friends", for example she went to a hockey game and bought him a souvenier, and he calls her, etc.. This only worries me because I have a hard time trusting him & before he was friends with this girl, he used to like her. She also used to like him. It doesn't bother me if he is friends with her; but more the part that he used to be interested in her, and she used to be interested in him, does bother me. I know i can't tell him who his friends should be, and i've confronted him about "does he still has a thing for her" or whatever, and hes denied it, and she has moved on as well (apparently) ...
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boyfriend
Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 4:02 pm
my boyfriend wants to go further with me (like him fingering me, and me giving him a hand job and stuff) but i dont no i jus would feel akward doing that and i dont no why...i already feel akward making out and i dont no why i do..could someone please help me.
**im 16/f
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