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Why would they seem okay with it?
Once you told someone your feelings you feel releaved that you let it off your chest. right?
well i did...
we had a good talk about it, and she didnt understood but i simply explain that i dont know why i do have these feelings but i do for some reson.
later...
i realized she was still my friend and didnt feel awarkered about it. i then ask "why did you seem alright about me telling you how i feel?" i was hoping she will say something but she didnt. and when i ask in a note she didnt even reply.
why is that? why cant it be a simple reply why she seem okay with the fact. yes she still hangs out and talk to me, but i want it in words. all i can think is that she seem okay with it cause she might have the same feelings. but that cant be right. can it?
so if someone ask you that qeastion "why do you seem alright about me telling how i feel?" what would your answer be?
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Maybe she is just seeming to be ok with it, but she isn't. I don't know why, but some people think it is necassary to keep there bad emotions (like sadness and being mad) bottled up. It may be because they think if they say the wrong thing you will get mad and not want to be their friend any more. Anyway, that doesn't really answer your direct question. I woud probably say "Because I didnt want you to get mad at me." It's as simple as that, for me anyway. I mean, when you know someone for so long, you don't really want to say "Well, I think that idea is completely wrong." You usually don't say things like that because you are afraid of losing that friend. It's not really that you don't like their idea, it may be that you just don't understand it completely. Just keep trying to find out. Try to sit her down and say something like, (you never told us a name so I am just gonna use the name Brittany) "Brittany, it is bothering me that you are just acting ok when I tell you something. Will you please tell me why you just act like you are ok? Because it bothers me that you don't tell me how you really feel." Just say something along those lines to you friend. She will probably tell you why she is acting the way she is. Hope that helps.
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hi, well wat did you tell her? im kinda confused but if you told her that you liked her or something maybe seh only likes you as a friend that why she wasnt answering you maybe. I kno wen i tell someone how i feel they usually say something back but im not really sure why she didnt say anythin back to you. If someone asked me thaty question i would prolly answer with i feel the same way thats why im ok with you telling me how you feel if i really did like that person. i hope thats wat u meant. i hope i helped a little bit im sorry if i didnt i try. ok well if you need anymore help you can write me in my inbox!
~katelyn~
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