heyy everyone! firstly, im 13, female, from Australia.
well, i have a HUGE crush on a guy in my court! and i mean HUGE! but not big enough to be obsesed. we are already friends. i dont talk to him much, but i did not that long ago. i was so sad when my friend told me he was moving schools. and then i was even MORE sad when i heard he was moving HOUSES!!! noooo! i am so sad, i dont want him to leave, because i will never see him again. I am a shy girl and i have never had a boyfriend, or even Kissed a guy ([ i know so embarassing :( ...) so i am way to embarassed to even talk to him that much. I was just going to ask everyone for advice if i should ask for him new phone number or house adress or both. because i really dont want to lo
se contact with him, because he is such a great guy. Also i cant tell if he was flirting or not. But the other day when we were talking and he was kicking the footy with his mate, he tried doing this trick with the footy that was hard, and he stuffed it up big time, (but i didnt care coz he is the best anywayz) and i saw him blush a little. i cant tell if he was flirting, because NO ONE has EVER flirted with me, or asked me out EVER!! sooo anyway, please answer my question if i should ask for his new number. or adress. or both.
SORRY THIS WAS SOOO LONG!!! and THANX for the advice!
Debateist answered Monday April 16 2007, 5:20 am: Even if you dont tell him how you feel he knows that you are friends so he wont mind if you ask him for both his numba and adress. Plus this way maybe a few months (or hopefully not but years) down the line he may ask you out or you may find the courage to ask him which I know is so embarrassing. Either way you can still keep in contact with him without him knowing how you feel for now (anyway).
Hope I helped and good luk for the future in all aspects and I hope that one day the shyness disappears as I know how it feels to be in your situation.
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