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Hey! well I'm 14/f and I'm turning 15 May 3rd! Well, I'm kind of undecided of which present to tell my parents to get me. I'm stuck between a coach bag and an ipod nano w/ its case. I want a nano because I like the idea of portable music, but I also want a coach bag because I think it's really cute and valueable, but I don't know yet and I don't think my parents can get me both
:(...what do you all think?

the coach bags I'm thinking of are
http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=9505&category_id=926

or...

http://www.coach.com/content/product.aspx?product_no=9503&category_id=926

which bag do you guys like better?

ps-whichever one I don't get, I'm going to save up money from the summer to get it. Thanks!

Get the ipod 4 your birthday. After, do something really fantastic like ah-mazing grades or something and then get your coach or start savin up money

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This morning my mom was cranky and kept snapping at me to the point we had a a tiff. During the course of the fight she said; I know you ask questions about weight and other things on the computer, these people are not experts, I see what you do; (But she really does not see because I log out when she comes near my computer) And of course she and I went back and forth saying nasty things to one another. (But I like asking and getting advice on Advicenators and other websites like Advicenators and the advice makes me feel better.) SO MY QUESTION: If you were me (or even it happened to you) and someone criticizes the people that you get advice from online how would you handle it? I mean would you ignore, defend it or other (and tell me what the other is)

Let's see....... I would ignore it. As long as your getting quality advice that works and helps you out in your life then there is no reason to fuss about what other people say.

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How do you kno wen your boyfriend is cheatin or sneeking round with someone else?

Well... they are more distant, they are colder when they are around you, always cancelling plans, go over t a friends house. You could never be sure but look for other signs

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15/f
so the other day i slept on my mattress with no sheet or anything underneeth and then i woke up and my back was all itchy and today i'll have like a random itch on my leg so i'll scratch it and then five minutes later its all red and bumpy. what is this?

This problem could be caused by many things. Fist it could be heat rash or you could have bed bugs, Sleep some where else tonight and if you continue having this problem go see a doctor maybe they could help you.

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Alright, so tomarrow is a busy day full of many things to do, and i don't know what to wear!

I am getting up really early tomarrow morning and getting my belly button periced.
Then my boyfriend is comming over and we're watching a movie, one of his favorite (scaryyy!)
Then we're going to a fast food place before iceskatting (i'm pretty gosh darn good at it too!)
my question is..
what should i wear?
i need something confertable to wear since im getting my belly periced, and becuase its a casual day..
but i want to look nice, because, i just do!

ideas please?

thankyouuu!

Wear hip jeans and a cute loose fitting sweater

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14/f

I babysit my little brother all the time who is three and now my neighbor asked me to babysit her two boys who are 9 and 12 and I'm nervous cause I've never babysat that age group so I'm nervous. Any tips, hints, or ideas on what to do?

Thanks!

Let's see..hmmm... Maybe go over to the neighbors house a day early and see what the boys like to do in order to keep them interested or ask the neighbor for a list of things they like to do or watch. This way they wont get bored and start to o things that are not appropiate and ur career is ruin 4 ever

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Ok well im 14/f 15 in september and well i need money..and i dont want to work at my local krogers so any ideas what i can do for money?!

YOu dont want to work at your local krogers. What other choice do you have? Try it out see how it goes. While ur doing that, take the classified section of the newspaper and look for a job that really interests you. You never know where your first job may lead you.
BKLYNGURL20
aka
Lisa

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heyy everyone! firstly, im 13, female, from Australia.
well, i have a HUGE crush on a guy in my court! and i mean HUGE! but not big enough to be obsesed. we are already friends. i dont talk to him much, but i did not that long ago. i was so sad when my friend told me he was moving schools. and then i was even MORE sad when i heard he was moving HOUSES!!! noooo! i am so sad, i dont want him to leave, because i will never see him again. I am a shy girl and i have never had a boyfriend, or even Kissed a guy ([ i know so embarassing :( ...) so i am way to embarassed to even talk to him that much. I was just going to ask everyone for advice if i should ask for him new phone number or house adress or both. because i really dont want to lo
se contact with him, because he is such a great guy. Also i cant tell if he was flirting or not. But the other day when we were talking and he was kicking the footy with his mate, he tried doing this trick with the footy that was hard, and he stuffed it up big time, (but i didnt care coz he is the best anywayz) and i saw him blush a little. i cant tell if he was flirting, because NO ONE has EVER flirted with me, or asked me out EVER!! sooo anyway, please answer my question if i should ask for his new number. or adress. or both.

SORRY THIS WAS SOOO LONG!!! and THANX for the advice!

-natalieeee

Listen girl, DO NOT let your shyness get in between you and a cute boy. Be brave go up to him and ask him for his new numba and address. I mean if you to are friends then he would give u his numba. Be brave do not let this one slip away. For all you know, he could be your future BF.

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My boyfriend & I have been going out for about five years now. We don't see each other a lot anymore because of us going to school & him working. I go to college around where he lives but I'm a commuter. While I'm at school or leaving school, he's at school too or he's at work. So on weekdays we never see each other. Friday & saturday nights are his nights with his friends. Sunday is always our day because he doesn't work sundays. It has always been this way. But today, or yesterday I guess, he didn't come to see me. Last sunday he didn't either. Both sundays he just stayed over his cousins house. I'm cool with his cousin & all the people that live in their house, they're all like family to me, but he was with them friday & saturday night too! And now I'm starting to be really pissed off because I always let him go & do his thing friday & saturday nights & there is no reason why he can't spend one day out of the week with me. If I approach him about it, hell act like an ass & we'll start arguing & really, I don't feel like arguing with his dumb ass because I already know what hell say. Probably something like, "I just wanted to chill with my buls" or "you always got something to bitch about" or something along those lines. Okay... so yeah, I'm hurt. It upsets me because I never ask him for shit. All I expect is when it hits sunday, he's spending it with me. I'm like lost with what to do right now. As soon as I tell him how I feel, there's gonna be an argument & I'm really trying to avoid that. When we argue, we argue hard. But Ilm trying hard not to be passive so what do you think I should do? Suck it up & just let it go or suck it up & argue it out with him?

By the way, I texted him earlier today. Me: don't you ever miss me?
Him: yes, I do be missing you.
Me: I don't feel like you do. I don't know. I just miss you & we don't get to see each other a lot.
Him: we'll be out of school soon.

That's all I've said to him about how I feel today. So him saying we will be outta school soon obviously means we will see each other more once the semester is over. But still.. He could have came to see me today & last sunday! Please let me know your thoughts & how I should go about this. I appreciate all answers, however, don't just say, "just tell him how you feel. End of story." Its not that easy to tell a guy who thinks he's always right how I feel.

Thanks a lot!

Send him an e-mail expressing how you feel. Tell him that Sundays are your days and you miss being with him. After make a solution. Maybe every other Sunday could be your night. Also, you could find a day you both have nothing to do and spend that day talking. Bring up the problem in an innocent way and tell him to not respond until your finished. If he still does not see things your way then maybe the problem is not your Sundays, maybe it is something different.

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