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why cant i get a girlfriend
I'm a 16/m and I have never had a girlfriend. I used to be kinda fat in middle school, but i have lost alot of weight and am in great shape. I would say im good-looking, and have a lot of friends who are girls, but it seems like no girls think im boyfriend material. maybe its just that i cant tell if a girl likes me or not. so what should i do?
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Maybe because you think your good looking and your in great shapes..no girl likes an arrogat guy..not saying you're arogant or anything, but yu know.
Girls like modest, natural guys who see them as individual people and not just as "thier girlfriends"
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maybe the problem is that the girls you know have known you for too long. i know that sounds stupid, but hear me out: most of the guys that i'm friends with, i met in the second grade. so it would be creepy if i dated any of them. the best thing to do is try to meet new people, either at your school or people from different schools. if you keep meet a few new people, that will open so many doors. because think about it: if your friend from school has a friend from another school and you start hanging out with the friend from another school, pretty soon you will meet a lot of people from that other school. there's this one guy who doesn't even live in the same city as me, but pretty much everybody at my school hangs out with him. so it's kind of a networking issue. anyway, just meet new people and surely you'll find somebody.
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Ok these questions need answering if I am to really help you.
Have you ever asked a girl out?
Are you very flirty?
See, girls like guys to start that whole dating game. Thats just the way we are. If you sit back and relax, then no wonder why you are still single. you cant just sit there an expect a girl to fall for you. Realationships are a lot of effort and unless you try, you prolly wont get one.
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OK, I am 15/m and I kind of have the same problem. I can get girlfriends, but the last one I had (last Christmas) was my last one, because she broke my heart. I really liked her, I mean if it came to it I would move to another state if she did. But she expected me to know things without her telling me. To get to the point, I have chosen not to get into any serious relationships for a while. Because in middle and high school you never know what's gonna happen, and you never know if somebody is using you. And it may be that you haven't found "her" yet. My friend thinks he has found "her", and I am gonna be there when he founds out, once again, that the girl he is goin out with isn't "her". Look, I'm not sayin relationships aren't important, and I know it seems like you have to have a girlfriend, but you don't. I have been better off without a girlfriend than I ever was with one. Maybe you should stop looking for a girlfriend, and just look for a friend that happens to be a girl, and then hang out and find what she likes. You would be surprised what/who you find when you're not looking for it. I think I found my "her", but I am no where near asking her out. Call me a wimp or a dork or a loser, but I still haven't gotten completely over my last "her". Maybe you are better off without one. Hope this helps.
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just flirt~girls dont like guys who show no interest and dont even try~try to be funny and flirt~maybe to your friends that are girls first they know you~then to girls you like~or just ask to your friends that are girls what girls look for in a guy~i dono im not 16~but i hope i helped
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