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Hey everyone, I'm Heather. All my friends always seem to think I am really good at giving advice and i love to give it. Tell me anything, I don't judge, I've been through a lot and I have a lot of experience on tough topics that other people find it hard to relate to. Feel free to ask me anything, I'm here to help!
I am into acting, photography, writing and hanging out with my friends. I am in band and i play the alto sax. I have a lot of pets. I always have a million things going on inside my head and I sometimes over analyze my situations but I see other peoples situations clearly. Love to travel and meet new people.
Website: I'm an addict for dramatic
E-mail: feather1117@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: East Bethel, Minnesota
Occupation: school
Age: 16
AIM: feather1117
MSN: feather1117
Member Since: April 16, 2007
Answers: 2
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I'm a 16/m and I have never had a girlfriend. I used to be kinda fat in middle school, but i have lost alot of weight and am in great shape. I would say im good-looking, and have a lot of friends who are girls, but it seems like no girls think im boyfriend material. maybe its just that i cant tell if a girl likes me or not. so what should i do? (link)
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Ok these questions need answering if I am to really help you.
Have you ever asked a girl out?
Are you very flirty?
See, girls like guys to start that whole dating game. Thats just the way we are. If you sit back and relax, then no wonder why you are still single. you cant just sit there an expect a girl to fall for you. Realationships are a lot of effort and unless you try, you prolly wont get one.
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I'm 15/f (well 15 this summer) and I've never had a boyfriend. Never had a first kiss or anything. I'm pretty (or so i've been told) I'm easy to get a long with and as long as you respect me then I'll respect you. But whats wrong with me? I've never been asked out or looked at in an affectionate way before. I know im only 15 and I shouldn't worry but all these chicks in my school are freaking ugly and have no self respect and they have boyfriends. So why can't I?
Please don't tell me "your time will come" I've heard that a million and one times.
One of my friends is so annoying and ugly, and she's just a pain in the ass and she's dating this guy in grade 12.
wtf. :( (link)
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Ok, let me tell you this. I am now 16. I feel the same way. I would look into the mirror and cry because i don't feel like I am good enough. But I really want you to relize that you are young. You're going to have your chances. I still am dealing with this whole waiting thing, but you can't just sit around and wait for a guy to come to you, you have to make an effort. Impress a guy you like by showing them you like them. Go out of your way. You cant get something out of nothing, so you either try, or you sit there and still wonder. I can garranty that [even though i have never seen you] that at LEAST 4-5 guys like you at your school. But like you they are shy. It has been proven that guys mature slower than girls. some guys arent ready but think they are. Keep your chin up, i know its hard but it will happen, especially if you make it happen.
you look at those ugly girls boyfriends, are they really that hott, are they really what you want, dont be jealous.
Did that help you at all?
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