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Whats wrong with me.
I'm 15/f (well 15 this summer) and I've never had a boyfriend. Never had a first kiss or anything. I'm pretty (or so i've been told) I'm easy to get a long with and as long as you respect me then I'll respect you. But whats wrong with me? I've never been asked out or looked at in an affectionate way before. I know im only 15 and I shouldn't worry but all these chicks in my school are freaking ugly and have no self respect and they have boyfriends. So why can't I?
Please don't tell me "your time will come" I've heard that a million and one times.
One of my friends is so annoying and ugly, and she's just a pain in the ass and she's dating this guy in grade 12.
wtf. :(
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I had this problem when i was younger, and then I really came out of my shell. My friends were much more outgoing that I was, so I tried to follow them. You really just have to go up to a guy you think is cute or something YOURSELF. If you're in a public place, have a friend go up to some guy with you and just flirt. OR ask your friends if they know anyone you can be introduced to. If it's a guy you're acquainted with, just start talking to him gradually, ask for his AIM or something. The key is confidence...thats how I got my boyfriend. Confidence doesnt mean you have to be a slut, it just means you have to have the courage to do it yourself. Guys really dont care if you go up to them, especially if you're pretty.
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First of all you make yourself seem sooo old.Your only 14.ALL you need is patience.You know,all them ugly girls that disrespect themselves only have boyfreinds because they act slutty and guys like sluts.If you want to be liked and have a boyfreind be a slut and im sure you wont do that.These girls lose so much in their life,they lose their self respect,their reputation,their VIRGINITY.The reason you dont got one now is because you still havent met the respectfull guy that doesnt care ONLY about a girl actig slutty.You need a guy thatll respect you and like you for your personality first then looks.
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The ugly girls get all the boys because they put out or the boys think the can get somthing out of them. Its not like the boys really like them for who they are! You dont need that. Boys cause exxxtra drama. You could be a flirt, bat your eyelashes, weaar shoooort skirts and hang out with the boys and flip your hair and do anything for them to notice you. But do you want that? Do you want a boy who dosent like you for who you are? I think you are better off; you wont get your heart brocken. The right boy WILL come...eventually. For the moment, spend time apreciating your un-broken heart!
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Ok, let me tell you this. I am now 16. I feel the same way. I would look into the mirror and cry because i don't feel like I am good enough. But I really want you to relize that you are young. You're going to have your chances. I still am dealing with this whole waiting thing, but you can't just sit around and wait for a guy to come to you, you have to make an effort. Impress a guy you like by showing them you like them. Go out of your way. You cant get something out of nothing, so you either try, or you sit there and still wonder. I can garranty that [even though i have never seen you] that at LEAST 4-5 guys like you at your school. But like you they are shy. It has been proven that guys mature slower than girls. some guys arent ready but think they are. Keep your chin up, i know its hard but it will happen, especially if you make it happen.
you look at those ugly girls boyfriends, are they really that hott, are they really what you want, dont be jealous.
Did that help you at all?
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well when guys get older, they tend to go for the bigger ass and bigger boobs kinda girls. and ive had this feeling. It sux for me too. ive been told im pretty but ive never been in a tru e relationship. a lot of times girls will be slutty or do something to attract guys, you just need to very assertive and go and flirt with guys, theyll get attracted to that. and trust me, im not saying your time will cum, but if you pretty, guys are missing out, and when there is a guy it might be in a while it might not be, but like if you really dnt like it ask a guy out, they thinkits fine. ive dun it! just be assertive flirty and not slutty but not too prude!
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I thought the same thing, but honestly the reason most of those girls have boyfriends is exactly what you said they have no self respect- and if guys know that they'll use it to their advantage. Most of those relationships are not love, do you really wanna go out with guys like that anyway? Honestly, all I can say is be patient- being in a relationship isn't all fun and games. It's nice, but it's also a lot of work, in the meantime be happy being single. Trust me, it's a really amazing thing.
and there is nothing wrong with you, most guys your age probably have a hard time asking out girls they REALLY like, because they probably think you don't like them back- so they lower their standards.
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