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dating an experienced kisser
my boyfriend has kissed so many girls (and boys) that its just ridiculous. i have never been kissed. the thought of kissing him makes me really nervous. i'm not asking for kissing advice. but when we do have our first kiss, how bad am i going to be? lol. i mean is he going to be really turned off by me being inexperienced? share your stories, plz, i am nervous. :(
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Here's the good thing about kissing: There is not a right nor a wrong way to kiss. I wouldn't say you're going to be bad about it at all, I went throught the same thing you're going through. And my first kiss was great and I was a good kisser, at least that's what my then boyfriend said. The point is, is that if a boy really likes you, it won't matter to him how you kiss. Because he'll like kissing you no matter what, which is another good thing. Good luck, I'm sure you won't need it though. :)
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It's kinda hard to be "Bad" at kissing, sweetie. Honestly. Lol. However, it is something you kinda have to have chemistry in order to get into it, really. Just try to relax and dont over-think it. It will be fine.
Only reason someone could be a bad kisser is because you just dont work well and kiss well together. NO CHEMISTRY! I have been there...
So, just go with it and relax. It will be fine. Don't do it til your ready! <3
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Hehe hi!
Man, when it was time for my first kiss, it was so weird. My bf (who happened to be my VERY first date - and first bf afterwards) dropped me off and as I was 'waiting' in the car (too much Hollywood for me, I know) he asked if he could kiss me. I thought, wtf, why is he asking? So i ended up telling him that I know I will suck at it since it will be my first time. He told me to close my eyes. I did. And he kissed me. It wasn't French, no tongues. Just a normal kiss. My mouth wasn't even open.
I left the car thinking that he's never gonna call again. But he did! This was 8 months ago, now we're still together =).
Btw, he thought that I was just saying the first kiss thing to make him feel special. He didn't even believe me in the first place, haha. Now he does. But he never felt that I hadn't been kissed before even though I warned him.
Don't be nervous. =). If you want, let him know you're still a lip virgin. It'll make you feel better, trust me. You're not gonna suck at it. It will come naturally.
Think of ice cream....
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Best of luck!
Kay.
And he will NOT get turned off, trust me. He'll feel happy and special that HE will be the one teaching you. =)
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It's totally normal to feel nervous like you do. I felt that way before my first kiss. But trust me when I say you have nothing to worry about. Just let things happen and everything will come naturally. Don't sit there and worry about it when it happens, because you don't want to think about it. If you just go with it, your instinct will take over and everything will be fine.
Good Luck =)
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ok well everyone has this feeling EVEN ME...i had it. but the thing is when it happens, it just happens and u dnt know it! really. most guys thinks its cute, and he wont get mad, hell think its cute, and cool , and he might like it....du u get that? well i hoipe i helped
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