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bad kisser?
my boyfriend is a REALLY bad kisser. i mean i'v kissed people who were bad before, but my boyfriend is really bad.Like he shoves his tounge down my throat literally. i mean im not going to dump him over this. i juss want to be able to kiss him. How do i fix this? thank you for any help.
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Hey there! My advice to you is just keep on kissing him until he gets it right..it might take time just bear with him! He'll get it right the way soon...try to avoid telling him because it might hurt his feelings...he might think about it too much and stuff! Hope that helped!! Take care... =D
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I think the most subtle way to do this would be to tell him you want to experiment with different ways of french kissing. Then, just simply show him how you want to be kissed but make it seem like your experimenting, not TEACHING. You don't want to insult him. *Smiles*.
This works.... I have done it. Lol.
Best of luck... <3
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Im with the gentle honesty approach. If you wrap it up right and take care to only mention small things here and there, then I think it should be alright.
Next time he kisses you just ask him politely not to use so much tongue. Say it casually, and dont make a big deal out of it. Also, dont give him a lot of instructions, and dont correct him again later that day, but just ask him to tone it down a bit. You can even pay him a compliment first to build up his ego a bit lol. Also kiss him again right afterwards before he can think too much about it, and to let him know all is ok.
Of course no one likes to be corrected in such matters, but if its done gently and kindly, then I think it will be better in the long run. If you dont tell him, he may think he is doing a splendid job and you may have to put up with this for a long time to come.
Good luck.
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My boyfriend was the same with the shoving his tongue down my throat.
You can either bring it up.. which could possibly hurt his feelings. Even if you offer 'kissing lessons' .. it would do some work to his poor ego.
He might be embarrassed
Or just continue to kiss him. Practice makes perfect? Hah.
Kiss him slowly.. with pecks and if he tries shoving his tongue down your throat.. don't open your lips. If he continues to push his tongue, then gently bite his lips and back away.
Hold the side of his face with your hand and kiss him the way you want to be kissed. Press your lips against his for a while and let go..
If you want to do french kissing.. then you'll need to slowly/softly graze your tongue against his. He should pick it up.
He'll know how to kiss you after time.
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Hey,
Let him know. Offer him 'kissing lessons'. It will also help him to 'improve' if you tell him you're not dumping him over it. It will make him see that you're serious about it and he'll improve.
Tell him that you're concerned about it because it involved 'us' and not just 'me'.
Best of luck and smooches.
Kay.
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You could either kiss him more and hope that this will give him practice and it'll get better. Or you can tell him. Explain that you won't break up with him over this. Don't tell him he's doing it wrong but explain to him that he needs to be more gentle, laid back, however you feel like describing it.
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