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my boyfriend wants to go further with me (like him fingering me, and me giving him a hand job and stuff) but i dont no i jus would feel akward doing that and i dont no why...i already feel akward making out and i dont no why i do..could someone please help me.
**im 16/f
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Heyy-
I realize that you asked this question a long time ago...and idk if you still check it...but if you do, i was just wondering what you ended up doing...i'm in EXACTLY the same position as you (16/f...not really ready). haha and I need some advice..
Thankss!!!!
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if you feel awkward enough as it is, you're not ready for it and you probably shouldn't do it. wait until you are and feel completely comfortable with it. <3
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#1 tell him you dont feel like u wanna do it.
#2 if he gets rid of you he wasn't worth it!
is that all he wanted in the first place? sit him down and ask him questions be sure to get the thorough truth.
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You feel awkward b/c you're uncomfortable b/c you're not ready. Tell him that you don't feel ready and you're uncomfortable doing it.
If he truly likes you for you, he'd understand. If he gets mad & breaks up with you, then he's not a good bf at all & you shoudn't be hung up on him.
anybryars. Just tell him that you're not ready and obviously he is so do whatever when YOU feel ready. Don't let him pressure you into doing anything you feel awkward doing.
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There's nothing wrong with feeling awkward about it and it may just be a sign that you are not ready to take that step yet.
You could force yourself to do so but I have always found that when you feel you're not ready then chances are you really ain't ready so to give yourself some time. When you are ready to take that step you will know it.
As for your boyfriend, maybe talking to him about it and about you not being ready would be a good idea. If you already feel awkward about the making out part it's scary to think what you will feel if you feel pressured into going further. Yourbf will surely understand and wait until you are ready. I always think that a relationship consists of one person liking the other because of who they are and not how far you can go with them so if you do ask him to wait he will do. If he really just can't wait then I would question his motives and is reason for being your bf.
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If you're uncomfortable doing it then don't do it. Don't be pressured into doing something you're not entirely sure you want to do.
-Ryan
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