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Question Posted Sunday April 15 2007, 5:25 pm

how can you tell the difference in falling out of love w/ someone and just "getting used to them" or whatever.

im 16/f and hes 17/m.. this is my first "real relationship" so its not like ive experienced this before. weve been together 9-10 months.

its like sometimes i love him sooooooo much and i dont kno what id do without him.. other times its just like whatever i dont care and i could go for days without talking to him [we talk every single day [[diff. schools btw]] and its starting to get irritating].

i cant picture myself without him and i dont want someone else to have him and i dont want any one else but sometimes its just UGH ya kno?

what can i do? .. btw "taking a break" is not an option, if were over, were over, but i dont think thats what i want.


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solightninglove answered Sunday April 15 2007, 5:49 pm:
omg, this sounds like me and my bf weird. anyway i agree with the other person who answered this question. you just feel like your sufficating and you need some air. its like okay i love you and all but do we need to be talking EVERY SECOND. my bf calls me every single day too. sometimes its a little frustrating, sometimes i just dont answer the fone, which isn't really a good solution :/ but do tell him you need time to yourself to think, hell to breath. thats what im GOING to do.

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XoTEnniSChicK5oX answered Sunday April 15 2007, 5:40 pm:
You feel like he's smothering you and thats normal. I think the fact that you talk so much just makes you sick of talking to him at all. Instead of talking everyday, try talking to him every other day. Explain to him that you love him and don't want to break up, but you need you're space.

Hope I helped && good luck!!

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