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what's the correct way to do this?
My boyfriend and I have been going out for nearly a month now. I love him and he loves me. We care about each other a lot, but he seems to be so shy around me, and he never finds time to see me on the weekends.
I completely respect his space, and him wanting to see his friends. In fact I would like to see mine as well as often as I can. But even with spring break, he couldn't find one day to see me, and he gives me these excuses. Some friends say he is just shy or isn't comfortable finding time with me or something. I know we just started out, but it'd be nice to see him occasionally instead of seeing him at school. What can I do?
Thanks for your time.
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You are more serious about him than he is about her. If he wanted to find time to see you over vacation he would have. idk what else to say. maybe just leave it for him to figure it out. give him his space and leave him alone. you might find he'll run back to you in no time.
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You need to confront him immediatley about this. Tell him you'd like to spend more time with him and get to know him better. You're his girlfriend now. He needs to MAKE time for you. If he doesn't, a relationship is pointless. If he's uncomfortable with seeing you, request that he at least gives you a chance once in awhile. If he actually tried to make time for you, he'll get to know you better, and he'll be more comfortable.
Since he's shy, you're really going to have to confront him about this because he'll just keep making up excuses to not see you and things will only get worse.
Point out that you don't need to see him ALL THE TIME, but lately you haven't been seeing him at all and it bothers you.
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