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should i sacrifice a week or school and $1000 to see my boyfriend for a wk?


Posted Thursday November 14 2013, 12:55 am

its been 2 months since i haven't seen him, and if i don't see him soon then i wont see him till february which is in two more months. i am crazy about him, i know he is my life, and im willing to skip 4 days of school and a lot of money to see him for a week and a half. all my friends tell me its stupid, but i want it so badly, my heart is telling me yes yes yes!


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My Best Friend Is Going To Be Very Angry With Me If I Break Up With My Guy


Posted Wednesday November 13 2013, 12:35 am

I am dating a guy at the moment. We are together for nine months , but I don't feel the way I felt for him in the begining.I just don't love him anymore.He loves me a lot.If I break up with him now , a blame is clearly on me.My best friend is always really serious about relationships and she want me and my boyfriend to be together.I didn't tell her anything yet.I am in a break with my boyfriend.I have no idea about what i should do now.What do i tell him?What do I tell my best friend?Please Help!

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He likes me i like him but he is so confusing...


Posted Tuesday November 12 2013, 11:21 pm

So i just transferred high schools and i am a girl who is a Sophomore this year and i went to my very first football game!I don't really get in much relationships because i usally worry more about my school. I was at my very first football game and my friend knew some older people that go to our school. one of her friends (which is a guy) knew the guy that i currently like. Me and him did playful eye contact in the halls then we started to talk over facebook for 4 weeks straight every day after school.He finally asked me for my number and we would text all the time and he would say goodmorning and goodnight he would always tell me how i was a good person and i was so beautiful all the time.We started to grow closer and closer i hung out w...

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First boyfriend talking about sex


Posted Monday November 11 2013, 8:57 pm

-I am female
My boyfriend conner and Me are both 16. He was my first kiss only recently, We have been dating for about a month (ONLY!). He is sooo sweet to me and wants to make sure he doesn't upset me... But I know that he is not a virgin (and he drinks) and that he has been VERY sexually active (one night stands, etc) I am a virgin, never been touched by anyone or anything. Im christian, and previously was/am planning on saving myself for marriage, or at least until I'm older. I am (was?) as innocent as i could be, honestly. My parents are very very strict, an are putting a ton of pressure on me from the opposite end. Recently he has pushed me toward getting more physical. At one point I told him that we were moving too quickly, an...

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He's 31, and I am 23... What does all this mean?


Posted Monday November 11 2013, 4:56 am

i meet this guy in August he's 31 im 23..i've grown a lot of feelings for him..he says he has feelings for me too and can see us together in the future but just wants to take things day by day and isn't ready to commit right now...but he's constantly saying he.thinks im beautiful and too good for him.he always concerned about me talking to my ex...we had sex for the first time Saturday and he said he didn't have condom and i told him i didn't have birth control. he said he'd be careful. ...he came inside of me and didn't even try to pull out..and said hopefully i didn't get u pregnant. .then he says im not ready for kids but if i was to have a baby i would want it buy you..then he starts talking being a family and so on...does he love me,...

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How should I act around this guy?


Posted Sunday November 10 2013, 9:39 pm

I am a 20 year old girl. I have seen this guy 4 times. Two of them we were hanging out, once in a group, the other we went for coffee. We've only known one another for a short time, but I am quite sure I want to be his friend. But the trouble is, I seem to have quite a crush on him. I'm not sure what to do. He is popular and I am not. I don't want to be obvious about liking him. But I'm afraid to make a fool of myself around him.

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how to cope with love lost


Posted Sunday November 10 2013, 4:21 pm

How do you know if he really isnt in love with you anymore

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I feel like I missed my chance! So frustrated


Posted Sunday November 10 2013, 1:09 am

Me and a really wonderful guy were talking. Just as friends because we relatively just met before that but I developed a little crush on him. It wasn't anything serious at the time but later as we continued to talk, we became closer. He was going through a bad break up at the time when we started getting closer. And I took advantage of the fact that I could really get close to him by helping him out and genuinely supporting him. I never told him I liked him because at the time I wasn't 100% convinced I did like him a lot. He used to message me daily and talk to me all the time. You see, I'm a type of person who likes to get to know someone first before declaring my feelings. And I'm not the most confident person in the world to boldly admit...

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The confusion of a lost love.


Posted Saturday November 9 2013, 3:44 pm

So i asked a really close friend of mine out...lets call her V. V rejected me and it was kinda awkward for a week, about 2 weeks later everything was back to normal until we played truth or dare and someone told V to kiss me..so she did. During that week her 2 best-friends were telling me to ask her out again, and kept on saying "what if she likes you?". And finally yesterday there was a dance and she asked me if i could slowdance with her, i accepted and during the slowdance we were really close to each other, nose-to-nose. After the dance she thanked me... Do girls change their mind so easily?? What should i do??


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partner not contacted me for 4 weeks


Posted Saturday November 9 2013, 6:38 am

my partner has gone to his family in another country for several months. at first we texted occasionally and called around once a week. for the last 4 weeks i have heard nothing. last time we spoke all was fine. i thought i would give him some space for a couple of weeks so as not to pressure him as he is around family. then i called and texted and called again. phone was off and no reply. what should i do. i want him to come back but dont want to pressure him.

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Why am I so controlling with my boyfriend


Posted Friday November 8 2013, 11:43 pm

For some reason lately I've been super controlling with my boyfriend and get mad when he doesn't do what I suggest him to. We have a LDR for right now until I'm finished with college. He likes to hang out with his friends that live an hour away, he'll stay there all weekend and I'll barely hear from him. I explained to him how much I hate when he goes with his friends and doesn't talk to me because it makes me feel neglected and he has apologized and says next time he'll try harder to talk to me. Well the next time happened and he didn't. So this weekend he told me he was going and I expressed how much I wish he wouldn't because he has fallen asleep on me 3 times this week and I haven't been able to talk to him however he still went and of ...

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My sister slept with the guy I like, and now i don 't know what to do :/


Posted Thursday November 7 2013, 1:07 pm

7years I have liked this guy, we met up, and spoke for those entire 7 years. everything was going great until 2 weeks ago. My sister slept with him in my bed! whilst my cousin was asleep in there!!. I am heartbroken and so confused. It started when I txt him, he was feeling down so I thought what the hell me, my sister and my mates were going for drinks so he could join us for a cheer up. So my sister knew how I felt I mean all I have done for those 7years is talked to him. She slept with him that night, and today they have gone out on a date behind my back instead of telling me the truth. Tears prick in my eyes every time I mention it. when I confronted her about that night she laughed and smirked at me as tears ran down my face. I have to...

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Kissed a man who's not my boyfriend


Posted Thursday November 7 2013, 4:14 am

I've recently started seeing a guy, for about 3 weeks. He has been out of town and won't be back until a week and a half. Last night I was kissed by another guy, who I barely know, and definitely have no feelings for. I don't know whether I should tell my boyfriend? There is a huge sense of guilt and anger at myself, and I feel incredibly stupid for what I did. The recent week has been an intensely emotional week, dealing with all sorts of other personal issues and while I know it isn't an excuse, it has most likely contributed. I don't intend on seeing this man again, even as friends.

He kissed me, I kissed back. He touched me, I told him to stop. He continued, I told him to stop. He kissed me again and I didn't kiss back. ...

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any man here?


Posted Wednesday November 6 2013, 3:59 pm

Any man want to have s fun with me?

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How can I be comfortable in my own skin?


Posted Tuesday November 5 2013, 5:54 pm

My boyfriend and I are in high school and we've been dating for three weeks. I usually walk him to his classes and ask him questions but apparently, I'm doing something wrong. He told me Friday night, he wants me to talk to him more, instead of asking questions all the time but honestly that's all I know to say to him! I think I'm too worried about what to say to him than just talking to him...I really don't want our relationship to end soon or ever for that matter. He has a really sweet heart in him and I don't want to disappoint him. Any ideas? Help is much appreciated..thanks in advance!(:

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How do I get guys to not be so intimidated by me?!


Posted Monday November 4 2013, 8:36 pm

15/f I'm a sophomore in high school and ever since last year guys have always taken notice of me. I knew I would get some attention from guys but I did not think I would get as much attention as I did. A lot of times, if I wasn't so laid back, I could reported it as sexual harassment or something because I didn't know many of them. But now I am friends with mostly all of them and they are all really great guys. anyway I hear things that guys say about as far as my looks and everything how I'm attractive and like I take it as a compliment but it bothers me that guys are so intimated by me. Guys that are older than me are hesitant to talk to me even though I know they want to talk to me and make conversation. I know it's normal for guys to ge...

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She left me.


Posted Monday November 4 2013, 7:58 pm

I'm at a lost for words.. I met a beautiful girl when I came back home from my deployment she was perfect for me when been together for 2 years till she wanted a break, it hurted me but I support her because I just want her to be happy hopefully I was the one for her. I got a ring and was ready because she wasn't over me, she came to my place and we made love all night told her I loved her she said it too. The next day she told me she was talking to someone eles. She moved in with him and already engaged with him. Our relationship was so perfect now I don't know if I'll find love again.

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what's wrong with me/him?


Posted Monday November 4 2013, 11:11 am

So this male friend of mine (26) and I (21) moved in together back in March. Everything was cool for about four months. We eventually started sporadically having sex for two months, and then we stopped. Recently I tried to bring up the subject to him and he said he didn't want to anymore. My feelings were hurt and I was overwhelmingly confused. When I asked him why, he said, "I just want you as my roommate. That's it."
For this entire week, I've been trying my damnedest to pretend I was content with that logic. But what changed so quickly? I realize his decision is the smart one, but if he's attracted to me, why is he acting like this? I told him last night that I couldn't be friends with him and that I had to move out next...

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A 16 year old and a nearly 24 year old liking eachother


Posted Monday November 4 2013, 9:38 am

Is it wrong for a 16 year old and a nearly 24 year old to like eachother more than just friends?

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what would you do?


Posted Saturday November 2 2013, 4:28 pm

My boyfriend is from another country and he is muslim. We have been dating for about 7 months now. He buys me lots of nice things (for no reason) constantly, and he is very sweet. He's always doing and saying nice things to me. He always goes out of his way, and meets my "demands" with things. haha I really care about him a lot.

The problem, is that he won't tell his parents about me. He says that they will think he is marrying me, and that he is never coming home. I think that is stupid, why can't he just tell him we are just dating? He said they won't understand and he wants to be sure that we are getting married first. Also, because of this he won't post pictures of me on facebook. (he doesn't have any pictures o...

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